Wearing a Dress

[hitchki]

Re: Wearing a Dress

i dont know. First you gyals need to find you a man-dem. Take it/the dresses from there.

[Puchi_Kuchi]

Re: Wearing a Dress

No I wouldn't and he wouldn't ask me to. Some things can't be compromised on..if he wanted to change me why did he wanna marry me in the first place?

[sadzzz]

Re: Wearing a Dress

^ hmmm but some things do change.. its not about having someone change u or not... but we evolve and change habits all the time.

I'll be the first to admit that my hubz has changed me a lot... there's nothign wrong with it. A good thing actually. And it's not as if he didnt love me in the start or that he loved me like that so he should just have me like that... we need to grow together.. and if that means changing here and there, then by all means.. go for it :)

but yes, if ur morals are being compromised... then talk it through.

[pinks]

Re: Wearing a Dress

Any such woman should remember that she's gonna go to her grave, and hubby will go to his, on the day of judgment when she's held accountable to exposing what was farz for her to cover, the reason that my hubby asked me expose will be far from good enough.

[sereen]

@PyariCgudia

So wear the size 2 skimpy dress he picks out and continue to eat mcflurries…

That’s a recipe for disaster.

true

[FairyTale]

Re: Wearing a Dress

I dont know whats the definition of DRESS here but if its revealing, or anything that shows my ankles, no i wont wear that dress. All his concern by dressing me up in such dress would be prolly to feel more good about me when I am along. that good feeling i can gurantee to him even when i am fully and properly dressed up. Still If he forces me to wear dresses which my modesty cannot approve of, its a no. until i m on right, i am not afraid.

[theway]

@Sara516

That’s because they’re not sleeves, they’re called spaghetti straps

Ummmm personally i have no issues showing a little leg (knee length and below)…i don’t wear sleeveless for other reasons…clevage is a no-no though.

mar jawan kuj kha k……na-na…

@sadzzz

i’ll wear whatever he likes… but if that means my stretchmarks and things i dont find appealing about myself are on display… then i’ll have to decline

shoot me.

@pinks

Any such woman should remember that she’s gonna go to her grave, and hubby will go to his, on the day of judgment when she’s held accountable to exposing what was farz for her to cover, the reason that my hubby asked me expose will be far from good enough.

[Puchi_Kuchi]

Re: Wearing a Dress

i'd change for the better but not go down a level lol, sorry but if someone tells me to strip off and expose myself for them I would never do it regardless of who it was. There are certain things I would never do, and compromise my modesty would be one of them.

[diwana]

makes no sense

wear what u want and look good in and same with food.. actually eat not what u want but whats good for ur health

You do have a point.

There is some wisdome and sense here though.
You wear something to be conformed to surroundings and eat for your enjoyment (more personal). Both off course in limit of what is sensible, AND beneficial to you.

For example if someone likes you to wear something very unusual that you do not agree with that it will look good on you or your beliefs do not allow it, then don't wear it.

'Sayings' usually are not too long to include every aspect of thinking. :)

[njgal]

Re: Wearing a Dress

Isn't it the total opposite in real life... where most desi guys do a double take

"you are wearing THAT DRESS?
outside?
In public?
Over my dead body?
What if we run into out Imam Islam-ud-deen or Uncle Allah Bakshay

then running to get a burka to drape over

[theway]

@Puchi_Kuchi

i’d change for the better but not go down a level lol, sorry but if someone tells me to strip off and expose myself for them I would never do it regardless of who it was. There are certain things I would never do, and compromise my modesty would be one of them.

[Lusi]

Re: Wearing a Dress

can we post a pic of the "objectionable dress" we are discussing here...I am not sure about others but I am confused and curious what kind of dress are we talking about. I think "dress" is a very broard term and there are lot different styles that can all just be called "dress".

[Desi_BeauTii]

Re: Wearing a Dress

From the sounds of everyone, this is what we are talking about…

[Lusi]

Re: Wearing a Dress

maybe then we need to redefine our def. even my non desi friends don't wear such dresses...

[Desi_BeauTii]

Re: Wearing a Dress

Where is the smack my heard smiley when you need it....

[Sara516]

Re: Wearing a Dress

Skin.

Get over it

[Desi_BeauTii]

@Sara516

Skin.

Get over it

You get used to seeing it living in Urban areas lol.

[Sara516]

Re: Wearing a Dress

nah..i mean....i've seen some pretty trashy and ugly displays of skin...

the "decent" way to show skin is so that one cant' even notice ur showing skin....get it :D

[Desi_BeauTii]

nah..i mean....i've seen some pretty trashy and ugly displays of skin...

the "decent" way to show skin is so that one cant' even notice ur showing skin....get it :D

haha that's classic!

[BarbieCue]

My husband can say bye bye to happy married life if he ever asks me to expose myself in public. Keep ur fantasies inside the bedrooms plz.

That reminds me of this paki dude who, when bringing her wife over to Ireland after marriage, asked her to cut her hair short in order to look maadran. She happily obliged. He asked her to start wearing maadran clothes. She happily obliged. She asked him if she could work. He happily declined. Maadran indeed.