So basically neither the women or men on this forum using the word feminist understand what feminism is, I give up, it must be a language thing. Go and carry on affiliating yourselves with something you obviously don't understand. Theres a couple of petitions on the net fighting for the rights of lesbian women to adopt, get signing feminists.
It's beggars belief it's like calling yourself a muslim but never having read the Quran.
All I can say is don't call yourself a feminist in the western world, you will be laughed at!