Haan, you see. I was so much fascinated by this guy who suddenly appeared out of nowhere on that booth I used to work at during DSF. He spread his right hand and said, “Can I have the pleasure of asking the hand of this most beautiful woman in marriage?”… First I couldnt believe my eyes, ears… just staring at him, all I could say was, “Who are you?” Then he told me he wacthed me daily while going to that bank next to my stall. In less than 5 minutes, staring deep in his eyes, I clearly saw the lust which probably was the reason he asked me that. He was a fine looking guy but sensing his body langauge and his expressions, etc. I felt so disgusted. Dont know how he managed to stand straight there. If it wasnt that booth right in the middle of a busy road… oh his eyes looked disgusted.
Meaning to say agar wohi baat kisi charming se gentleman ne with innocent eyes kahi hoti tau… :love:
aww hayeeeeeeee :D chalo koi naheen TNW fikar na karo :D inshallah aik "charming se gentleman with innocent eyes" bhee aap k paas aa k ye baat zaroor kahein ge :D
Irem, mein ne tau apnay plans hi change kar liye. An entirely different life. Like an independent life on my own and adopting a kid or two and bringing them up alone. That's what I thought I'd do. But yahan gupshup ki larkion mein mix up ho kar.... Im starting to feel different again but... God knows, maybe this is also a short phase which would just pass. And after a few years from now, I'd be there alone with my adopted kid(s). Who knows.
Yaar shaadi ke baad kya hai... saari problems hi hein na. There are so many lies and so much efforts yuo have to put in to keep a relationship work. For example, misunderstanding hoti rehti hein. Mere saath tau kuch zayada hi hoti hein. Then you have to keep clarifying things or it wont work. This time I went to Pakistan, my aunt who got her daughter married just 2 years ago. And she has 2 kids now (she had twins). The aunt told me, "Now I regret it. I should have let my daughter be independent like you. And I would advise you that unless you trust someone like you trust your shadow, do not get married." And I told her, "Aunty, who can trust their shadow these days??" She agreed.
So anyway, this is actually a fact of life. If you are not prepared for all the sacrifices and arent mature enough to understand and smooth out all the complications which occur in a relationship, there is little chance it would survive. It's a fulltime job with lots of overtime to go with it.
TNW ye toh hae lekin shaadi se insaan kee life settle bhee ho jaati hae yaar and u get a family and so some kind of purpose in life, people to care for jo aap k dukh sukh beemari dukhi ka saath dete haen, and a little group which belongs to you and you belong to them.
khair, lets see kis ki kismat mein kya likha hae. abhee fiLhaal toh alhamdulilah life set hae aagay ka toh Allah hi Maalik hota hae :D
^^ Irem, I agree with you. but wot TNWB is rite too once u r in there u can get out even if u want to because problems don't start straight away. they start after wee while by that time gal is pregnant (most cases) and then she sufferes becoz of her kids. She keeps quite cos of her kids and bears all sorts of abuse from hubby n inlaws.
It should not b like that..... but how do we change it...
hmm - so most you ladies are impressed with the whole nine yards, like knight in shining armor presenting esquisite flowers kneeled one on knee, coupled with a diamond the size of Kohinoor.