Re: Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!
well done , don't talk "off topic"
topic is: "how to deal with a difficult MIL"
JUSt share your comments regarding my questions or whatever you want but please, for God sake , don't discuss me , i don't have any issues , i have given an explanation regarding my life with in-laws and i better know how to deal with them, just to make it clear that its not something related to me.
Now please back to the topic and share your own experiences, any dua, any sort of help , any piece of advice, guidance or anything you want about your cousins, friends,sisters or whoever you think ..
Let me clear it "her koi apni fight ka solution janta hy, lekin tareeqa guide kia ja skta hy kisi ko jo ouski life ko achha banane main help kar saky ..
Re: Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!
Thread is ready to be closed... as soon as mods wake up.
Saniya, the topic really is about YOUR MIL, not just some random MIL so don't get offended when people get personal. :)
Re: Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!
chha ji ..
You people are really making it isSue . I have cleared it thousands of times that its not related to me .
Well, i dont care if mods are going to close the topic ..
You people are over-reacting over nothing .. I never get any advice here easily only few people are really sensible and helpful.. so good-bye for good . You people can only blame others forcefully, nothing else ..
Thanks alot rabia, red velvet.pyariCguriya and other folks who really highlighted the points and told solution as well ..
Now do whatever you want . There are other sites as well, where people are calm,co.operating and only talking about the topic not disturbing others by saying anything they think about the OP . So its useless for me to gt stresS without any reason ..
Lets suppose if the topic is related to me or my MIL , so whats wrong in it that you people are giving me stress without any valid reason. Without reading the topic you are passing comments, what would i get by fabricating any story , i wanted to get some experience that how you people are dealing with difficult MIL's thats y i had requested married and sensible people to reply .. I had told my story as well, i had mentioned it before in my topic that few friends and cousins are really suffering. Bcz i wanted to help them after reading your experiences .. But its really hurting that people couldnt understand the situation and passed comments on my mothers guidance and my personal life as well..
Thanks a lot . Please mods ban me .
Re: Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!
cheeen karo ya chaaan
The topic YELLS that its related to you.
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^why do you guys need to know if it's really about her and her MIL? what difference does it make? You guys have issues when women here bash their inlaws yet you have someone who doesn't want to but you are making her. Wha? If I were the OP, I would be upset too by the childish behavior of people in this thread.
Re: Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!
cheeen karo ya chaaan
The topic YELLS that its related to you.
shut up and do your work .. I know there is a group of people and mods are also with them , thats why you people are doing this .
You cant do anything by posting this foolish comments ..
Do whatever you can do . Im not a fan of this site anymore. And i pray may Allah guide the people who are giving stress to me for nothing .. Allah is watching everything and he knows the best that i didnt lie in the whole post . Now doob maro ager imaan hy ya tm log Musalman ho tU .. Muje ban karna hy jo karna hy karo muje koi farq nhi parta. Net per bohts c websites hain jahan main ja sakti hon, ye pehli site hy jahan zyada hi ghustay hain dosron k personal matters main . Sucking people ..
Actually you all xpect few are unable to answer my general questions and you re the people who are spoiling happily living couples by sharing bad comments and posts. Get lost from me ..
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^why do you guys need to know if it's really about her and her MIL? what difference does it make? You guys have issues when women here bash their inlaws yet you have someone who doesn't want to but you are making her. Wha? If I were the OP, I would be upset too by the childish behavior of people in this thread.
thanks alot may Allah bless you ever. You will be in my prayers always. Thanks alot bro .. My ever last post.
Allah aap sub ko khush rakhe . Aameen.
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shut up and do your work .. I know there is a group of people and mods are also with them , thats why you people are doing this .
You cant do anything by posting this foolish comments ..
Do whatever you can do . Im not a fan of this site anymore. And i pray may Allah guide the people who are giving stress to me for nothing .. Allah is watching everything and he knows the best that i didnt lie in the whole post . Now doob maro ager imaan hy ya tm log Musalman ho tU .. Muje ban karna hy jo karna hy karo muje koi farq nhi parta. Net per bohts c websites hain jahan main ja sakti hon, ye pehli site hy jahan zyada hi ghustay hain dosron k personal matters main . Sucking people ..
Actually you all xpect few are unable to answer my general questions and you re the people who are spoiling happily living couples by sharing bad comments and posts. Get lost from me ..
Stick around a little longer and you will realize this is not normal even for this site. This is a wonderful forum and you will find lots of sane and helpful advice. I think it is the way you write that is making people reply in a hostile manner. Tone it down a bit and you will see people will respond very differently.
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^why do you guys need to know if it's really about her and her MIL? what difference does it make? You guys have issues when women here bash their inlaws yet you have someone who doesn't want to but you are making her. Wha? If I were the OP, I would be upset too by the childish behavior of people in this thread.
Actually, we don't care if its about her MIL or not. She keeps claiming to concentrate on ALL MILs or MILs in general when her posts yell personal situation, of course no fool would come here claiming "MY MIL IS DIFFICULT." Its always "what if" and often it relates to the person asking. With "what if" scenarios, you don't provide day to day details and follow up to queries made by other posters here.
The language and frustration of OP suggests also that its personal because she is having hard time dealing with stressful and painful comments here. in ke gussey aur behavior se tou lagta hai ke problem MIL main nahi, IN main hai.
Re: Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!
Actually, we don't care if its about her MIL or not. She keeps claiming to concentrate on ALL MILs or MILs in general when her posts yell personal situation, of course no fool would come here claiming "MY MIL IS DIFFICULT." Its always "what if" and often it relates to the person asking. With "what if" scenarios, you don't provide day to day details and follow up to queries made by other posters here.
The language and frustration of OP suggests also that its personal because she is having hard time dealing with stressful and painful comments here. in ke gussey aur behavior se tou lagta hai ke problem MIL main nahi, IN main hai.
ab tu yehi lagay ga q k mu tor dia ab maine .
Jb ek baat samaj nhi arhi tu gusa hi aega .
Roz ki sitUation btana ye kahan se prove karta hy k ye meri lifE se related hy ? You re being over smart ..
Maine Allah ko gawah man kar such bta dia k mera taluq nhi is maslay se . Tu kis baat ki zaberdasti hy . Main apni dost ka masla b share kar chuki hun jis k sath boht bura sulooq hoa ous post ko b muj se relate kr dia gaya . Kya saray maslay mere sath hi hon gy duniya k? Ajeeb dimag hy aap logon ka. Jo karna hy karo ab jesa samajna hy samjo you are cureless .
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ab tu yehi lagay ga q k mu tor dia ab maine .
Jb ek baat samaj nhi arhi tu gusa hi aega .
Roz ki sitUation btana ye kahan se prove karta hy k ye meri lifE se related hy ? You re being over smart ..
Maine Allah ko gawah man kar such bta dia k mera taluq nhi is maslay se . Tu kis baat ki zaberdasti hy . Main apni dost ka masla b share kar chuki hun jis k sath boht bura sulooq hoa ous post ko b muj se relate kr dia gaya . Kya saray maslay mere sath hi hon gy duniya k? Ajeeb dimag hy aap logon ka. Jo karna hy karo ab jesa samajna hy samjo you are cureless .
theek hai maan lia ap ka masla nahi hai
doston ke maslaay bhi tou apne hee hote hain :Dap ki dost MIL se stress le rahee hai aur ap apni dost ke leye yahan logon se. ;)
esi gussa karne wali koe baat nahi hai :)
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theek hai maan lia ap ka masla nahi hai
doston ke maslaay bhi tou apne hee hote hain :Dap ki dost MIL se stress le rahee hai aur ap apni dost ke leye yahan logon se. ;)
esi gussa karne wali koe baat nahi hai :)
gusa tu main karun gi jb apko topic samaj nhi ae ga or aap zaleel karne lag jaen gy
meri dost ka b masla nhi hy ye
ye masla maine apni cousins,friends or boht c websites per dekha hy . Jiski waja janNa chahti thi .
Mera masla is maslay se bilkul taluq nhi rakhta . Mera gHer alag hy , mera mere in-laws se koi larai jhagra kar k gHer alag nhi hoa ye mere husband ka faisla tha or hum ne apna gher lia hy personal, abi b meri saas yahan ati hain or main ounhe pehle jese treat krti hun wo depressed hain tbi ounko kuch b bolty waqt pata nhi chalta . Ab samaj agaya apko ya abi b english main translate krun main ye sub aap sub k liay ?
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well i have asked the owner of this site for ban and deleting my posts.
Just wait and watch i ll be no more posting here ..
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^sanya rajpot, there are some crazy people. So ignore them.... That is ultimate solution..
Re: Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!
some nhi almost .