Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!

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Re: Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!

@Saniya_Rajput

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You have cleared it nicely .. A big thanks to you . I couldnt sleep the whole night because of their response .
I was wrong abt MIL cant love because of some personal reasons . She is nice but she never helped me in house chores, like , chopping veg, dusting or even she asks for a glass of water at bed where she is playing games on fb and im pregnant doing evesythng for her and FIL ,pressing clothes, washing, cooking, cleaning house , each and everything.
But i never complain. On sundays as well, when my husband sees he feel bad . Sometimes i cry because i had never done these things at my parents place. I knw im married and i have to do all these thngs. But whenever my husband arranges any maid she says “bahu ko bigarna hy? Koi itna kam nhi hy, sub krty hain. Hum b krty thy”. Now my husband has arranged a separate flat and she is abusing me infront of my fIL and family . My mother cant ever do so. And i never tell her about mz in.laws behaviour. She even abuses my late father :,(
Now we r separate ..
If i was wrong why did my husband is realising everythng on his own without any complain or back biting from my side against MIL ..
Still i do respect her and all members by my heart . And i do hijab when i was 8 yrs old.
Now i hve explained everything ..

^ sounds like your mom didn’t prepare you for the married life. Also, seems like this is turning out to be about you rather thn the friend and her MIL???