Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!

[rabia3983]

Re: Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!

@Sehrysh

RV, the problem is that some people with or without reason, consider their own mother to be like Christ - the saviour and Messiah and they automatically juxtapose the MIL to be the anti-Christ and she-Devil.

A MIL is not, merely because she is the MIL, a DIL’s enemy. A MIL may not give her life blood, sweat and tears for her DIL like a mother will - but all MILs should not be presumed to be likely to push their DIL in front on an oncoming train.

This is exactly what I mean. RV even your example of a khala doesn’t apply to everybody. My mother is really close to her naads but not to her own sister.

Also, like sehrysh said, not all MIL are the same. Keep an open mind when starting a relationship, give respect to your in-laws like you would respect your parents or at least try to.

OP posted few comments of this difficult MIL…which if you just read the comment they aren’t anything you wouldn’t hear if you change your style of living. Even us girls talk about the girl who use to be super liberal and now isn’t. OP if your “friend” really thought of her MIL has a mother…she would have taken these comments has a mother picking on her daughter or telling her how she feels.