Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!

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Re: Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!

@Saniya_Rajput

umMm , kon se comments?
Like:

1. engagement k baad tu ghoomti phirti thi larky(fiance) k sath , ab parday ki batain karti ho??
   2)her waqt sochti rehti ho hum log tmhe aisi kon si aziat dy rhe hain fazool k natak
   3)hum tu parda nhi karty , tm b ghoomti thi pehle ab abaya pehan lia tu hijab or behayaee ka bta rhi ho .
   3)pehle kabhi khana banana nhi sikhaya kisi ne?
   4)itna jaldi q soti ho ya itna late q othti ho?nahusat phela di hy.
   Etc etc

All the comments are pretty harmless, IMO. But I understand if you find them annoying tho.

What strikes me a bit is the first comment; I remember you called non-hijabi behayaa and Ismailis’ vulgar, now if you yourself are dissing out such comments about other people and their religion/how they practice, shouldn’t you expect something in return? And from the comment of MIL it does sound a bit like there is something about it. Think about it? Jo khud pe nahi saha jaata wo kissi aur se bhi nahi kehna chaiye, right? kya pata, jisse aap behaya samajh rehi hain wo Allah swt ke kitne kareeb hai.