Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!

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Re: Ways to Deal With a DifficulT MIL ..!

@Saniya_Rajput

i muSt say , sirf apni Maa hi Maa hoti hy bus . Saas is always Saas , beleive or not , M***other can never spoil her daughters home , buT mother in law has options ***, like 2nd marriage if there is any fErtility pRoblem or any other isSue , buT our own mother cAn never think about any such options or choices , i dont know if im talking right or its just a thought of mine ..
I have noticed many times Mother in law try to poke her nose if hubby and wife both are happy , she would complain her son at once if Daughter in law has madE any mistake but she would remain silent where she is her own daughter .. Its natUral .. But again 5 fingers are not equal 5% hi bahu ko apni beti jese rakhti hain . Ye maine puranay waqton ki baatoN main suna hy k bAhu beti jesi hoti hy , aj kal tU NA bAhu khush na saAs majority ..
SoluTion ek hi hy separate rehna . Door reh kar sub izat kr lete hain thori boht bAchat hojati hy ..

Oh please!! Every saas is someone’s mother. Whether it be beta ki maa ya beti ki. Given a mother’s mamta, by that logic, beta ki maa bhi apnay beta ka ghar nahin kharaab karegi.

I know of girls’ mother who has been fitna in her daughter’s life and was so interfering her daughter got divorced. So it’s not maa ya saas ya baap ya susar - it’s about who the individual is.

And moreover, what about the couple - don’t they have the sense God gave them to 1) learn tolerance, patience and grace and 2) know how to balance relationships and be fair to everyone involved?