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hain? i thought women actually discover themselves and their bodies in new ways as they age and the intensity of orgasm only goes up esp in the 30's. for men its highest in their 20's. and goes down as they age.
but at the same time the best age to have a baby for a woman is 18-25 whereas a man never loses his sperm.
go figure .....
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There is one point missing in the original post. Yes us desis are stuydying, settling bla bla but in general, specially in Pakistan, some individuals live in fantasy world; i.e. waiting for Mr Right or Miss Right to come along. That seldom happens and it is also one of the reasons for this unnecessary delay and thus causes 'frustrations'
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^ Yes, I agree. Its not so much that we are working or studying, because that is actually independent of having a relationship or getting married. Evidence is that many people have relationships and study at the same time. You have your family time, don’t you, despite all your studying?
Its more that there is this trend now that “I am a doctor, so my husband must also be from a professional school, plus he must have X salary, plus he must also be religious, plus he must also be sweet and take me out on drives and worship every moment of my life”.
Desis need to stop watching bollywood movies. Really.
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Where is Catty?
Hasnt anyone noticed that she's missing?
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Cat baji agree with u, as a religous wise we have no obligation as soon we are mature (balig) then we can marry, but is more traditional that we don't get married before 20.
as long u r talking about me then i am not waiting until my 20 :D so have fun i don't wanna miss my youth :D
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true but what is purpose of getting married when once u loose ur youth. u work so u can fulfill the nesscities, but today’s world we wrok like we are only alive in this world so we can only work 24 / 7 
no aruguement just giving opnion agree with u on the part but on the other hand if u see then u might come with same thing whihc i metion above
as long as u r talking memon & gujarati families , not necessrily i am memon becoming a doctor helping my father in his bunssiness, my brother had a degree and he own the buss. so we don’t put anything off , we try to take everything with us as much as we can.
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I agree with cat woman. In pursuit of good careers and stable jobs one misses on the fun part of the life i.e. finding yourself love and enjoying it at the prime time. There used to be times when parents would ensure that their offspring are married when they reach puberty. Apart from enjoying there is an element of keeping away your kids from the sinful nature of this desire. But again this tendency has vanished, not without reasons of course. It was believed to be a wasteful exercise marrying your kids that early. They, then, lacked derive to strive for excellence and largely were found to be lethargic. Besides, issues like incompatibility grew up. At 16, lets say, a girl or a boy do not even know them selves and are irresponsible towards the real issues confronting married life. They cannot plan their family life at that stage jut because they cannot. The result was too many kids in the hands of moms who desired to have fun playing around them selves. These kids were then the responsibility of their grand parents and since they lived in a joint family system, it was okay. Gradually, joint family system fall apart and with it, traditions such as this.
I do believe that one should marry at early life to enjoy ones sexual life as well, instead of just marrying to procreate ensuring the cycle of life go around. It’s a fact that one enjoys life more when young. Alas, we have run down on this option of enjoyment at the altar of economic social life. We have got to let this off our wish list like many other things our predecessors had like unpolluted air and water.
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women are at sexual prime at the age of 25, and men at 35 i have read this somewhere
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hmmmmmmm....... I think it depends on the individual. People are at their sexual prime at different age.
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lol. Ur name is sooo funny disc 1 of 2 