WAS: married for 8 months ..... NOW: 7 months pregnant and divorced.

[Muzna]

Re: WAS: married for 8 months … NOW: 7 months pregnant and divorced.

@badabing

I’m sorry but your husband is begerat, that’s the only way to describe someone who cheats on their spouse. Unless he has an epiphany moment, I’d let him go. Most guys who sleep around do so before marriage, not the other way around in my experience with paki men. Move on, next time do a thorough check of the dude you marry. I had only cousin who got married to a guy, they went to Dubai on honeymoon. When they get back, the guy literally 3 days later says he has to go back to Dubai for “business”. Luckily, my cousins father is quite well off here in London, so he hired a private investigator to follow the guy to Dubai where the guy was meeting up with his hindu indian girlfriend! When presented with photographic evidence of intimate moments of their son with the hindu girl, the guy’s parents said “is say toh hum hindni say shaadi karadaytay, kumuzkum sawab toh milta!” Some parents of guys are just as bad as the guys themselves - if I did that after marriage my parents and my family would disown me, and my family is probably more liberal than 95% of British Pakistani families.

Sadly your assessment is accurate. Any married person that justifies an affair for whatever reason is beghayrat; guy or gal.

And epiphany moments are hard to come by…