WAS: married for 8 months ..... NOW: 7 months pregnant and divorced.

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Re: WAS: married for 8 months … NOW: 7 months pregnant and divorced.

@ConfusedMe

I feel like I have given him more then enough chances. I’ve tried working things out with him since I found out I was pregnant. My parents have tried working things out between us, they have even contacted his parents numerous times, but they didn’t seem very interested in fixing anything. I wanted to sacrifice my own happiness for my baby, I wanted her to have a mother and a father. If his family had been good to me, I would have tried dealing with his cheating, maybe even ignored it, but for the past 7 months I havn’t felt that anyone from his family has been on “my side” they have all treated me like crap and their behaviour has gotten worse and worse … A part of me is still hoping that he realises his mistake, but I doubt it …

I’m sorry but your husband is begerat, that’s the only way to describe someone who cheats on their spouse. Unless he has an epiphany moment, I’d let him go. Most guys who sleep around do so before marriage, not the other way around in my experience with paki men. Move on, next time do a thorough check of the dude you marry. I had only cousin who got married to a guy, they went to Dubai on honeymoon. When they get back, the guy literally 3 days later says he has to go back to Dubai for “business”. Luckily, my cousins father is quite well off here in London, so he hired a private investigator to follow the guy to Dubai where the guy was meeting up with his hindu indian girlfriend! When presented with photographic evidence of intimate moments of their son with the hindu girl, the guy’s parents said “is say toh hum hindni say shaadi karadaytay, kumuzkum sawab toh milta!” Some parents of guys are just as bad as the guys themselves - if I did that after marriage my parents and my family would disown me, and my family is probably more liberal than 95% of British Pakistani families.