I completely agree with what everyone is saying. Love or arranged both have risks. I have heard of pakistani love marriages ending in divorce because the parents were not for it. Love or arranged both have their risks. I think both families AND individuals should be on board otherwise it is destined for doom. Not all marriages whose parents are for it end but it takes a lot of strong will power and dedication to keep a marriage going. All of us should share our experiences and advice we never know who will need it!