Re: Want my hubby to be mine-Help plz
I feel sorry for your baby in all this drama.
Re: Want my hubby to be mine-Help plz
I think this is enouf 4 critisim purpose. I guess all in the forum are MIL. There is no DIL facing such issues. Ab zra tasali se sb hazrat meri bat sun lain. shyd kisi ko smj ajye... hmari shadi ko 3 mnths huwy hain. aur shadi se phly meri khala ne mjy apny 4 srdiyon k suit diay thy 4 my honey moon. Qk tb srdi k kpry market main nhi thy. aur un k pas unstich suit prhy thy last years k. so she gave me. maine unhain apny hisab se stich kra lia. coz my khala is as slim as im and can share clothes. Shadi k bad ek din meri khala mere ghr aai and I said her k apny kpry ly jain. bt tb tk mere hubby ne mjy sardiyon ki koi shopping nhi krwai thi. my khala said abi tm rkho I wil take them afterwards. Unfortunatly yeh sb meri MIL k samny ki bat hy. usi rat mere husbnd ne mjse bar bar israr kia k yeh kpry tmhary hain tm inko jan bojh k khala ka bta rhi ho. I said nhi mere nhi hain maine hony moon k liay liye thy unse. Anyways jb main apni ami ki trf aai to meri MIL ne mere suit nikal k meri nand yani apni beti ko dy diay. jb main wapis gai to meri nand un mainse ek suit pehny huwy thi.. Jo k obviously mjy acha ni lgna tha.. maine MIL se 2 3 bar kaha she said k tmne kia suit suit lgai hui hy. hmain pta hy who kis k hain.. maine who choty kr k nand ko dy diay hain.. and I was really shocked... maine unse kaha k anti who mere nhi thy main apko kesy yaqeen dilaun. she said khala k thy ya ni mjy pta hy. main khud bat krlngi.. By chance after some days khala visited my home. aur qk saas ne kpry liay huwy thy unhne puri try ki k hmain akela na chora jaye. kbi saas kbi nand bari bari hmary pas byth jati.. khair maine khala ko btaya jo k unko b bura lga. she talked to my MIL k apko aisa nhi krna chahye kisi ki chee bgair ijazt to islam main b lyna thek nhi. jiska saas ne bht bura manaya k yeh kon hy hmary ghr k mamly main dakhl dyny wali. Sham ko jb hubby wapis aye to maine unhain sari bat btai. even he was nt believing k who kpry mere thy ya khala k. Anyways iss bat pe jhgra hua and he said shukr kro k maine abi yeh nhi kaha k khala yahan na aya kry. qk jo shkhs hmary ghr main fasad create kry uski koi jgah ni.. isbat pe hmara jhgra hua and he hitted me. Jis se kafi larai hui. And he ran away 2 his mother and unko larai ki kahani bta k aye. Thn his mom came and hmain smjhya k khala ki wja se q larai rhy ho.. usne mjy jo jo kaha maine wesy wesy jwab dy dia bat khtm yeh who. Meanwhile mere husbnd ne kaha I subh apna borya bistro pack kro aur mjy yahan tmhari skle nzr nhi aani chahye.. anyways rat jesy jesy kr k guzri. and subh un k office jany k bad I called my father told him the situation and requested him k mjy convaince bhej dain. unhne mjy rickshw bhej dia. maine ek do zruri cheezian li aur main agai. aany se phly mjy meri MIL ne roka k ghron main jhgry hoty rehty hain aisy ni jaty etc etc.. pr main agai. (Which I admit was my biggest mistake). Tbse ab tk issue create hua pra hy. ek to unhne khud mere kpry churaye upr se ab khud shrtain lga k bythy hain k khala is ghr main nhi ayegi.. ek yeh bat and 2ndly yeh k yeh Prda krygi... Prdy wali bat k liay btana zruri smjhngi k unki family typical gaon ki hy and mine shehri.. aur unki family main abaya plus niqab kia jata hy. shadi se phly mere parents ne unse yeh bat clear ki thi k shadi k bad isko b to ni krna pryga. to tb they said k nhi wesy to hmary khadan main hy lakin ispe koi bandish nhi hogi... lakin ab qk shadi hogai hy aur tb unhne sirf lrki phnsany k liay yeh kaha tha k ni prda yeh na b kry to koi msla nhi hy.. isliay shadi hoty hi yeh msla bn gya hy... ab last over a mnth main apny parents ki trf hn. aur mere MIL aur FIL ne ek bar b mjse haal nhi pocha... wesy they says k hmari beti hy.. hubby ka kehna hy k khud gai thi khud ajao. and 2 3 batain aur yeh k jb main aai us k 2 din bad mere father ne unko call ki. aur mere FIL ne intahai badtameezi se mere father se bat ki.. us k bad 2 week gap rha thn unki call aai aur yeh shrtain (prdy aur khala nhi ayegi) lga di. now 2 week aur hogye hain.. hubby se drmiyan main meri on and off chat hui hy. he said khud gai thi khud ajao msla hal hojyega. I said him k ap lyny ajao. thek hy main khud gai thi mjse ghlti hui bt ap ajao lyny to msla khtm hojayega. ustrf who nhi aty.. 2ndly he said me k main ghr MIL aur FIL ko phone kr k kahn k main apny apko ap k mahool k mutabic dhalongi jesy ap kahainge krngi tb who lyny aainge.. and also he said k parents ki ijazt k bgair who nhi askty...... Plz forum walo insaf se btao chahy kpry mere thy chahy khala k kia meri MIL ko yeh hrkat zaib dyti thi? Kia mere FIL ko mere father k sath us andaz main bat krna bnta tha? kia jo cheez unhne shadi se phly clear ki thi uspe unka issue create kr k be tukki shrtain rkhna bnta hy? Kia khud kpry chura k khud khala k bary main kehna k yeh hmary ghr fsad dalti hy yeh yahan nhi ayegi (sirf isbat pe k unhne unki ghlti pe bola usy point out kia) bnta hy? hmari ek mutual friend ne b mere hubby ko smjhne ki koshish ki. she and also I felt k unpe ghr walon ka pressure hy jiski wja se who lyny nhi aty. kia mere MIL aur FIL jo mjy apni beti kehty thy unko nhi chahye tha k iss 1 mnth main ek bar apni beti ka b haal poch lyty? kia bry hony k naty unka frz nhi tha k mamly ko khtm krty aur mere hubby ko bhej k mjy ghr ly jaty? kia mere hubby ko apny parents ko nhi kehna chahye tha k mamly ko khtm krain aur ja k ly ata hn main... :( :( :(. Ya jo who krhy hain ek churi upr se seena zori who sb thek hy??? aur us k bad b yeh na kahn main k I want my husband to be totally mine?????? tell me???? :( :( :(
i regret reading this that too with so much effort!
this is depressing! Im sorry to use such words but yr inlaws are ghatiya log. There can be no excuse no reason no explanation for what your mil did. Whether they were yrs or yr khala's clothes, she has no ****in right to use them w/o your consent.
Lanat hai aise parde, niqab pe jab harkaten aisi ghatiya aur neech karni hoti hai. Jahils!
Re: Want my hubby to be mine-Help plz
Im sorry for what i had originally posted at this topic. Though i still feel wanting qabza of husband is wrong but i can only sympathize with your situation and i am sure it really kills to be in it.
Re: Want my hubby to be mine-Help plz
Am I the only one thinking how wierd it is of the Khala to ask for clothes back?!
does that even happen?
Re: Want my hubby to be mine-Help plz
^Yeh if it was readymade/already stitched clothes that u borrow then I can understand, but I don't get ur Khala lending u unstitched clothes and then taking them back stitched. It's totally wierd. Wouldn't she just say k beta aap rakh lo bus, think of it as a small wedding gift (since I'm guessing she already gave her money/jewelery for the actual wedding).
Re: Want my hubby to be mine-Help plz
Woho so amidst all this mess, why the khala asked for ber clothes bk is somehow of much importance? I totally don't think so. What if the girl wanted to give them back? What if they were hers to begin with....does that give anyone the right to just use her stuff without her permission?