Re: Wandering Eyes
very important point you mentioned there - imvho being ok (or letting them do it) with husbands staring and appreciating other women is the first step in letting them loose so to speak. and/or giving them the wrong signals. some women might be too innocent while others might think i have him on a short leash. imo the end result for either of them would be disastrous if ignored for too long.
until and unless both husband sit down together and agree that the husband will ONLY stare and appreciate other women and the wife can ONLY stare and appreciate other men and thats where they draw the line. but then who is to say either one of them will not cross the line and everything would end. the human objective must be to thrive and build a family not always be on the edge - the instance my spouse cheats im going to throw him or her out of the house.
imagine a women stares and appreciates every guy 20% of the time when the husband is around and the husband doesnt mind it. in his absence she will appreciate say 40% of the time. if you think about it, what does it actually mean? her mind is occupied with other men 40% while shopping or walking in a mall. ask few more question. what is she really staring at and appreciating? the clothes he is wearing? his eyes? ears? legs? chest? what is all this eventually leading to? if she has a husband, no matter what anyone says, he comes in direct comparison here …
imvho - wives would be fooling themselves if they think they are ok with s&a