Re: Wandering Eyes
But sweety, at the end of the day, it does undermine the level of trust also. If looking at Na Mehrams is forbidden in our religion, I believe it is so for a very valid reason.
Obviously if my husband tells me I am the most beautiful person on earth, and in the same vein, he keeps his eyes wandering, maybe he is only consoling me. But if he can protect his stare in front of me, (and ofcourse when I am not there too, but he knows that Allah is), I have no reason not to trust his words because after all, I am the only one he looks at to relish and please his stare, though the world be full of pretty faces. And yes, such husbands still exist in this very world.