...Walima Was A Bummer...

[AnGeL_EyEs]

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@Shikra

Aik tou paindoo larkiyon k saath flirt bhi nahi kiya jaa sakta, saara maza kharab kharab kar deti hain

[Sara516]

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Then we ate (don't get me started on how they formed a messed up line). Food was good. Then I took mrs. and went to the front to congratulate the couple. The wife looked friendly as she was smiling and looking in the eyes but the dude had kind of scared/angry look :-/ Kher, I congratulated him and without looking in the eyes he said Thanks. No khushi on his face whatsoever. Dead expressions. I felt like punching him.

You probably know why he looked so pissed off right? :D

[Dushwari]

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Shikra bhai,

you should have.

best,

Dushwari

@Shikra

So I went to a walima yesterday. I kind of knew that it’ll be boring for ME but wife didn’t know that. So she really ready and I didn’t stop her on purpose, although gave her hints that it may be too simple of a walima for us.

So we go there, they had a sing saying dudes this way and non-dudes this way Merey haathon k totey urr gaye ALL the weddings I’ve been too, I’ve never sat in men while the women were separated. Mujhe males sey waisay hi allergy hai. Kher, poor mrs. Shikra, her face was dekhney wala

Kher, then the dulha’s bhai had no idea who us 3 brothers were, he probably thought we were wedding crashers. He was like “uhhhh are you the dulhan’s brothers?” We were like “uhhhhh no ”. Kher, then the function started with tilawat, naat, dua. Then they had the slide show. That’s another story that where they had the projector, half the hall couldn’t see it.

Normally in those projections, they start from baby pics and show them til the day, but here they just showed baby pictures. Then they called the bride and the groom and there was silence in the hall. Again, I’ve been to weddings and normally there is music that girls spend a lot of time deciding on which song it’ll be when they enter the hall.

Then we ate (don’t get me started on how they formed a messed up line). Food was good. Then I took mrs. and went to the front to congratulate the couple. The wife looked friendly as she was smiling and looking in the eyes but the dude had kind of scared/angry look :-/ Kher, I congratulated him and without looking in the eyes he said Thanks. No khushi on his face whatsoever. Dead expressions. I felt like punching him.

Then we left. I am not saying it’s bad to have a wedding this way but FOR ME PERSONALLY it was a bummer as I’ve never attended this kind of wedding. I’ve always attended weddings with music, lively people greeting each other, dance etc.

p.s. Canpaki there was no chicken qorma, but I brought baked chicken for you

[Cheegum]

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It seems the hosts were of conflicting ideas. One side probably wanted a conservative wedding while the other wanted a more halla gulla one. What everyone got in the end was probably an unpleasant mix.

But yeah just cuz the people are segregated doesnt mean the event cant be fun. :)

[Shikra]

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@Sara516

You probably know why he looked so pissed off right?

Because I was a more interesting dude than her hubby and he knew that his wife is enjoying talking to me?

@AnGeL_EyEs

So, how u doin’?

@Dushwari

Shikra bhai,

you should have.

best,

Dushwari

Dushi jee, I should have “enjoyed”, is that what you are saying? Or are you saying I should’ve punched the dude?

Cheegum Jazakallah brother For what? I don’t know

[AnGeL_EyEs]

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@Shikra

So, how u doin’?

hey! im not paindoo

[James_Bhaand]

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@Shikra

Because I was a more interesting dude than her hubby and he knew that his wife is enjoying talking to me?

tumhari life main oonchi heel wali jooti ka kafi role nazar a raha hay mujhay

[Shikra]

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^^ Abhi aisa kuch nahi hua

@AnGeL_EyEs

hey! im not paindoo

1. THAT’S WHY i was TRYING to flirt with you

2. But you proved me wrong by giving this reply (i.e. by not getting it)

Good job

[Dushwari]

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Shikra you should have enjoyed, if it wa enjoyable dinner.
but apparently it was not.

you should have punched the dude on his sorry face to wake him up and be thankful to Allah swt to have made a choice to marry.
perhaps, it was an arranged marriage for him.
perhaps, his clothes were not a good fit or he had anger on somebody.
poor guy, spoiled his wedding.

but, the good thing is you were a nice company as a couple and that is what matters the most. hopefully, it taught him some manners how to learn to be happy.

best
Dushwari

[James_Bhaand]

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shikray
ho sakta hay woo baycharaa buhat tension main ho

[Sara516]

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@Shikra

Because I was a more interesting dude than her hubby and he knew that his wife is enjoying talking to me?

Nah i dont think so
well usually ppl are just more relaxed on valima, not to be dirty or anything but everyone is..the families as well, are just tired and sick of it all. its odd htat he might’ve looked grumpy

[Shikra]

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@Dushwari

Shikra you should have enjoyed, if it wa enjoyable dinner.
but apparently it was not.

you should have punched the dude on his sorry face to wake him up and be thankful to Allah swt to have made a choice to marry.
perhaps, it was an arranged marriage for him.
perhaps, his clothes were not a good fit or he had anger on somebody.
poor guy, spoiled his wedding.

but, the good thing is you were a nice company as a couple and that is what matters the most. hopefully, it taught him some manners how to learn to be happy.

best
Dushwari

Dushi jee,

I think the marriage was arranged. Actually he was first doing love marriage where he met someone from the ISNA convention, but that girl turned out to be a poser (i.e. hijabi in home but non-hijabi as soon as she left the house) so they broke off the rishta. Now he got married. Who knows why he was sad.

@James_Bhaand

shikray
ho sakta hay woo baycharaa buhat tension main ho

Lekin chachoo, shaadi k BAAD kaisi tension?

[AnGeL_EyEs]

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@Sara516

Nah i dont think so
well usually ppl are just more relaxed on valima, not to be dirty or anything but everyone is..the families as well, are just tired and sick of it all. its odd htat he might’ve looked grumpy

oooooooooooooooo i get it
good point

[Shikra]

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@Sara516

Nah i dont think so
well usually ppl are just more relaxed on valima, not to be dirty or anything but everyone is..the families as well, are just tired and sick of it all. its odd htat he might’ve looked grumpy

Dude, I was having a ball at my walima, ask faizy

[Dushwari]

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chelo, apneye piyaroon keyee ageye surkrooh tow ho giya.. ubb iss auret kee zindagee apnee kervahet seye khoob bigarye ga.
aisa shekhs kebhee bhee kush nahee ho sekta.

may Allah swt give his spouse to help change him for good and to be able to know what he wants and to be able to live a decent unresentful life.
it is common in men, this particular kind of life long sense of being unsatisfied.
they perhaps go after people with a heart that only knows to deceive own self and others. they can only get out of this misery, when they accept that they must not be immature and begin acting genuinely responsibly. they deceive many people including own self.

[AnGeL_EyEs]

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^ wipes eyes and takes a look again am i reading this correctly…

what happened to

best,
dushwari ??

[Khumar]

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@Shikra

I am not hitting you. I am hitting ON you Aik tou paindoo larkiyon k saath flirt bhi nahi kiya jaa sakta, saara maza kharab kharab kar deti hain

unskilled people

@Shikra

Dude, I was having a ball at my walima, ask faizy

that’s cuz i was there

runs away

[Shikra]

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@Khumar

unskilled people

that’s cuz i was there

runs away

2 words for you :no: PAY ATTENTION!!!

aur kah tou aisay rahi ho jaisay tumhe bara experience hai k larkey flirt kartey hain tou kia kahtey hain

[Sara516]

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@Shikra

Dude, I was having a ball at my walima, ask faizy

Yeah, hubby danced at the valima. Its all good

[Shikra]

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@Sara516

Yeah, hubby danced at the valima. Its all good

Why don’t you let him smile in pictures?