Re: Wadda Hell shud i do??
Sweetness,
Are his looks really that bad? You said he's okay looking and about the same height. If he's shareef, has a good personality, and has a steady job, what more could you want? I don't know about you, but I would never want a guy who is better looking than me. Overly good looking guys are usually vain, and often have a wandering eye. And plus, you don't want to be known as the plain Jane in the relationship. As far as height is concerned, my husband and I are about the same height (if I wore a heel, I was taller than him). I was really concerned about it at first, but then I thought, to hell with everyone. My guy's very nice and loving and I'm proud he's my husband. I wear high heels whenever I want, and neither of us gives a rat's ass what anyone thinks. As a matter of fact, he's proud to have me by his side. In the US, it's not unusual to see a woman who is taller than her man, especially in the celebrity circle.
Before calling it off, can you get to know him a little better? He may not be number one in the looks department, but he probably has a lot of other things to offer. If you are truly repulsed by him, then you can always call it off. I don't understand how you came to the conclusion that you think he's so unattractive. Didn't they show you a picture before your rishta became pukka? Maybe deep down, you're scared because you don't know him so well and are using his looks as an excuse. Speak up to your parents before it gets permanent. Rishtay are hard to find, and it would be a shame to let one go before you give him a real chance.