True. At the end of the day it's about fighting the temptation. Patience has sweet payoff.
Teggy are you married ? If yes then I admire your patience. If not then you will not know what kind of patience is required to hold someone off.
The question here is if someone does not have patience and cannot hold off what options one has
1. Muta - not allowed in sunny fiqh.
2. Second nikhah - the person cannot bear the financial burdon.
3. Masterbation - Some resort to it and Most of the ulema have allowed it.
4. VS - New technology new questions , and that is exactly what we are discussing. It can be considered another form of materbation , may be. I am not sure yet.