In old days people were allowed a muta or second nikah when they traveled to other countries or cities and stayed there for a long time. Now it is very expensive to do something like this . The very reason some one is away from wife is that they are trying to make more money to provide good life for wife and kids . So , what is the alternative ? Can husband and wife have phone sex , sex via chat or webcam etc.
P.S: It is just a discussion. I am not into anything like that, so no personal attacks and also don’t be judemental please.
In old days people were allowed a muta or second nikah when they traveled to other countries or cities and stayed there for a long time. Now it is very expensive to do something like this . The very reason some one is away from wife is that they are trying to make more money to provide good life for wife and kids . So , what is the alternative ? Can husband and wife have phone sex , sex via chat or webcam etc.
P.S: It is just a discussion. I am not into anything like that, so no personal attacks and also don't be judemental please.
I dont think anyone is too comfortable to talk on this subject, BTW i think u r a female correct ? if you are i am just surprised what made you think like this to start a topic on this subject ?
This is funny ... it is not really 'virtual' it is in actual fact just assisted masturbation. So the rules for this will probably follow what the muftis have said regarding masturbation. As for the wife part it cannot be any one else. It would be similar in that respect to foreplay.
its an exaggeration of a mind thats been bombarded by over sexualisation. instead of over emphasising sex to your wife by engaging in over the phone or web sexualised activities (thus further creating an over emphasised environment) just do the new muta. edited
Maybe its that I've led a somewhat sheltered life but I just cant get used to the idea of husband and wife living apart. If hub needs to be away for long periods of time, wife should be with him - kids or no kids. Troubles or no troubles to get it done. If it is a one-time or very occasional thing that they need to be parted then I'm sure its fine Islaamically and otherwise to do husband-and-wife things however they can be done.
I dont think anyone is too comfortable to talk on this subject, BTW i think u r a female correct ? if you are i am just surprised what made you think like this to start a topic on this subject ?
You will be surprised soon .:) I am not a female look at my avatar. Did you not read the part which says it is just a discussion and thaks Allah that I can keep my annonymity and talk on any subject at GS comfortably. Don't forget to check some of my very innocent threads from my profile.
Peace bro Mirch
This is funny ... it is not really 'virtual' it is in actual fact just assisted masturbation. So the rules for this will probably follow what the muftis have said regarding masturbation. As for the wife part it cannot be any one else. It would be similar in that respect to foreplay.
So back to Teggy's question. Is dirty talk allowed between husband and wife ? Provide references please.
its an exaggeration of a mind thats been bombarded by over sexualisation. instead of over emphasising sex to your wife by engaging in over the phone or web sexualised activities (thus further creating an over emphasised environment) just do the new muta. edited
Brother you vroom very fast past my thread. Did you not read that mutta or second nikah is very expensive , someone is away from family just for the simple reason that they want to make some good mola for the existing family.
Now reply again.
So virtual sex in this case would be nothing but a wise financial decision?
If finances are not the issue, the other 2 options would be OK?
There are many threads on the subject of second nikha or muta and their viability and allowability. If you wish you can open a new one to discuss this subject.
In this thread we are discussing only virtual sex between husband and wife if you have something to say about it then please feel free to participate.
^^ You could've ask the same question without bringing in those 2 as an option. Now that you brought it in, its unfair to expect others, not to bring it in
But anyway, its an interesting question.
This morning, I was listening on News that Space Shuttle Discovery Undocked from ISS this morning, bringing back the astrounaut who spent 95 days there.
What would one do in the situation when he/she is 24 hours on NASA monitors (while in ISS) and away from his/her spouse for such a long time.
Finances or no finances, Muta, second Nikah or even Virtual sex may not be an option at all.
Wow. I can't believe someone would suggest you go out and marry some strange woman just to have sex with her (and thus, use her. mutta is the same as prostitution), instead of masturbate while having phone sex/internet sex with your real wife.
Just, wow.
WOW.
I suggest you rethink your priorities. Doesn't anyone love their wife anymore?
WOW!
The entire concept of vitual sex is disgusting be it with your spouse. If we are staying away from our spouse for an extended period of time, maybe we should go into a state of fasting if one is getting uncontrollable urges.
The point is that while sex is a need of every human, it is also a matter of mutual respect and utmost privacy.
The other thing is that once someone gets into a habit of soing unconventional things, it can lead to other negatives that can become irreversible.
Wow. I can't believe someone would suggest you go out and marry some strange woman just to have sex with her (and thus, use her. mutta is the same as prostitution), instead of masturbate while having phone sex/internet sex with your real wife.
Just, wow.
WOW.
I suggest you rethink your priorities. Doesn't anyone love their wife anymore?
WOW!
Who is suggesting second nikha and muta here , so for I have not seen any suggession in this regard , everybody so far have voted for VS.
Awain rola panday ho ?
