So what part of "spreading her legs" is common sense or intelligence? If we were having a scientific discussion about the act of mating then yeah, "spread her legs" would be quite appropriate. But we are not.
As far as being overwhelmed with the immense knowledge that you present to me.....sorry to burst your bubble but I am not. I am, however, saddened that someone exhibiting a glimmer of hope when it comes to knowledge lacks so much in the area of communication and diplomacy. Anyways......
I have a friend who recently lost her husband to a tragic car accident. She is no longer a virgin at a very young age. I would hate to think that someone out there would refer to her as having "spread her legs" for her beloved husband.
I have another friend who is more liberal than most and had an 8 year dedicated relationship with a guy. They got engaged finally last year and bought a house together. They should have been married this year but the pressure of families and issues leading up to the actual marriage tore them apart. She is no longer a virgin. I would hate for someone to refer to her as having been "drilled".
I am not passing any judgements; in fact I am trying to gain some insight on what makes people behave a certain way. In your case: what drives you to use language that may incite or provoke. Perhaps its a rush you feel.....whatever rocks your boat man.
I am sorry to burst YOUR bubble but the fact of the matter is, if a girl spreads her legs for another guy she got DRILLED. I don't care what kind of relationship they are sharing, whether it was a marriage like one of your friends or an illegitimate one like the other. I don't like to beat around the bush my friend.
I don't pass judgments on these people either. They did what they did and that's not my problem. But since your friends openly admit they lost their virginity, it's pretty safe to say they got nailed or if it makes you feel any better, they had sex. Happy?