Virginity..

[zobia]

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brother...change ur company. or dressup as pathetically as possible...(so no danish gal attracted to u :D) u r not a gal otherwise veil is a best option :D

[queer]

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moin pai, if you dont learn to speak by the time you are five, you can never be good at it later. its a fact. same thing with sex. get married soon, or you are in for a very harsh life. in india we usually get married at 12 for this very reason.

[moin.ul.atiq]

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@queer

moin pai, if you dont learn to speak by the time you are five, you can never be good at it later. its a fact. same thing with sex. get married soon, or you are in for a very harsh life. in india we usually get married at 12 for this very reason.

true :D

[Khumar]

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didn’t you go to dubai? there are plenty of oppurtunities there for everything…if you get my drift

[queer]

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taxiwala had a headache.

[Khumar]

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bechara.

[Lusi]

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@moin.ul.atiq

This is obviously not generalization but its mostly true.. I can tell you that. You've not met many Pakistani women bred in the west... The ones who are born and raised in the west are not the type who are born and raised in Pakistan under parental guidance. In the west, parents dont have a say in raising their daughter neither can they question where their beti is going or who are their friends.. having bf before marriage these days for expatriat Pakistani larkis- My gora/gori friends told me and they generally dont lie

My 90% of friends are American born Pakistanis in different states and I do move around in Pakistani community and interact with a good bunch of American born Pakistani girls and none of them fit your generalization. You guys think that boy friend by default means that a girl is having sex with him.
Now that you have brought their parents in, can I bring yours in too? Can I say that there are loop holes in your upbringing that you are accusing a group of girls based on your assumptions and generalizations without evidence?
Oh and it also appears to me that you don't have any issues with guys having pre-marital affairs/relationships as your posts are all about girls. Obviously you have very limited exposure and you believe too much in what people say, so I am not gonna argue with you.

Oh by the way western media is corrupting girls in Pakistan as well especially they girls in cities, so maybe you should get a wife from pind, Wazairistan, or Afghanistan.

[Mr_Fraudia]

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1- moin, why are you hanging in mixed company? especially in a group where such activities are rampant, why are you at parties with them?

2- the nickname virgin-boy is them taking a piss, ppl get stuck with nicknames. Its less that they are concerned about you being a virgin but your response. had you said, sorry I dont believe in premarital sex it would be a different situation.

3- I assume you dont hang with that group now?

[Monk]

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@queer

moin pai, if you dont use it by the time you are 25, your body kills of your mojo. you are guaranteed a crappy sex life, with a partner who is equally horrible in bed.

speaking from experience hahahahahahaha

[The_Voice]

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@Khumar

didn’t you go to dubai? there are plenty of oppurtunities there for everything…if you get my drift

yeah u just have to ask the taxi drivers, they know all the right places

[Mr_Fraudia]

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anyways... thread ka khulasa yeh that moin sahab is a stud muffin and is getting unsolicited proposals for one night stands from danish girls..

I am impressed and stuff yo

[dutch_paki]

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@queer

moin pai, if you dont learn to speak by the time you are five, you can never be good at it later. its a fact. same thing with sex. get married soon, or you are in for a very harsh life. in india we usually get married at 12 for this very reason.

I didnt know queers were allowed to get married in India :p

[moin.ul.atiq]

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@Lusi

My 90% of friends are American born Pakistanis in different states and I do move around in Pakistani community and interact with a good bunch of American born Pakistani girls and none of them fit your generalization. You guys think that boy friend by default means that a girl is having sex with him.
Now that you have brought their parents in, can I bring yours in too? Can I say that there are loop holes in your upbringing that you are accusing a group of girls based on your assumptions and generalizations without evidence?
Oh and it also appears to me that you don’t have any issues with guys having pre-marital affairs/relationships as your posts are all about girls. Obviously you have very limited exposure and you believe too much in what people say, so I am not gonna argue with you.

Oh by the way western media is corrupting girls in Pakistan as well especially they girls in cities, so maybe you should get a wife from pind, Wazairistan, or Afghanistan.

having a bf means sex? Oh definitely not! I never said that.. But what I am saying is that American-born Pakistani girls dont want to be left out on the dating scene anymore- I am just stating what I have heard and learnt talking to ppl- your opinion does count too. And I think a lot of Pakistani girls need some sort pf friend- a male company- again no generalization and I am not saying its bad- my personal opinion or my 2 cents as they say what I am saying is the Pakistani girls I have met who lived/are living in the west are different than say, from the ones in Pakistan.

My upbringing? What do you know about it? Aap tu ilzaam laga rahe ho My abbu and ammi taught me good things in life. Khair, you seem to be angry in your post- I will not say anything.

[moin.ul.atiq]

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@Fraudz

1- moin, why are you hanging in mixed company? especially in a group where such activities are rampant, why are you at parties with them?

2- the nickname virgin-boy is them taking a piss, ppl get stuck with nicknames. Its less that they are concerned about you being a virgin but your response. had you said, sorry I dont believe in premarital sex it would be a different situation.

3- I assume you dont hang with that group now?

1: you can't avoid some ppl in your life.. for example, your boss, your prof and your colleagues.. I am sure you dont like everyone you share your workplace with.. but u do hangout with them- otherwise you'll be labeled "unsocial"

2 I said that- but for lot of ppl it kinda sounds premitive at best. many think its funny to be virgin just because you follow some religion where its prohibited

3Yes, I still do.. I answered in #1 why..

[moin.ul.atiq]

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@Fraudz

anyways... thread ka khulasa yeh that moin sahab is a stud muffin and is getting unsolicited proposals for one night stands from danish girls..

I am impressed and stuff yo

Aap ne meri pagdi hi hi utar dee.. ki karaan, I am FOB and FOBs are ignorant.. btw, it was a not one-night stand proposal- she ultimately wanted to have nikaah after knowing what it means to be married to a devout muslim like me... but then, I refused thinking she might have had 100s of bf before me.. :(

[sheyn]

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the fact that ur “embarassed” about ur “situation” spurs them on…

i don’t see y u think u shud be embarrased about it…u let them see it bothers u , of course they’re gonna mess wid ya… I wud !

U shud learn to take a stand …

P.S dutch_paki…Queers have needs too…

P.P.S ..moin how does her sampling the goods be4 she commited to a “devout” way of life justify things…

[mizzrani]

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^ i agree it is ur embarassment that ha sled to them calling you "virgin boy" u shud stand up for urself n let them knw dt in islam it is prohibited for men and women to do zinnah .. and it is the gurl who asked u for a one nite stand dt shud b ashamed n embarassed of herself for advertising her services to everyone .. silly women

[Light_Bearer]

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@moin.ul.atiq

absolutely right, brother.. its a azeem gunah and lot of ppl dont understand it.. there’s a beauty in being loyal to your legally married wife. I have been hit on many a times.. sometimes it becomes a problem in rejecting the proposal as I feel I am hurting a beautiful girl

It’s called gunah e kabirah, Azeem means something high and good.

Oh man we do have resident Brad Pitt. So many girls so little time situation.

@Khumar

didn’t you go to dubai? there are plenty of oppurtunities there for everything…if you get my drift

Not everybody does to Dubai for this purpose. :halo:

@queer

taxiwala had a headache.

LOL.

@Khumar

bechara.

Abay you guys turned this section in cafe.

@moin.ul.atiq

Aap ne meri pagdi hi hi utar dee.. ki karaan, I am FOB and FOBs are ignorant.. btw, it was a not one-night stand proposal- she ultimately wanted to have nikaah after knowing what it means to be married to a devout muslim like me… but then, I refused thinking she might have had 100s of bf before me..

Sounds like cricket match say pehlay net practice. Or rather test run. Cool.

Still if you want to stay chaste it’s your decision and I respect you for that.

[hareem01]

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Allah says in the Holy Quran:

Surah Noor Ayah 30. Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: And Allah is well acquainted with all that they do.

Surah Ahzaab Ayah **35.** For Muslim men and women,- for believing men and women, for devout men and women, for true men and women, for men and women who are patient and constant, for men and women who humble themselves, for men and women who give in Charity, for men and women who fast (and deny themselves), for men and women who guard their chastity, and for men and women who engage much in Allah.s praise,- for them has Allah prepared forgiveness and great reward."

The Prophet(SAW) said: “There are seven whom Allah will shade in His Shade on the Day when there is no shade except His Shade: a just ruler; a youth who grew up in the worship of Allah, the Mighty and Majestic; a man whose heart is attached to the mosques; two men who love each other for Allah’s sake, meeting for that and parting upon that; a man who is called by a woman of beauty and position [for illegal intercourse], but be says: ‘I fear Allah’, *a man who gives in charity and hides it, such that his left hand does not know what his right hand gives in charity; and a man who remembered Allah in private and so his eyes shed tears.” *(Bukhari & Muslim)

May Allah protect us all from the Satan the outcast one.

[Fayz]

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The day you get embarrassed of your religion is the day you move on. Until then have pride in what you believe in.