Virginity..

[moin.ul.atiq]

Re: Virginity..

@Terrible_Guy

You remain virgin until you get married, period. Nobody said you have to wait until you’re 30 though. I myself got married in my mid to late 20’s.

Maybe you can’t avoid some people in your life, but that doesn’t mean you have to associate with them more than is necessary. You don’t need to worry about how acceptable people think your reasons are for being a virgin or for following any part of deen. You’re giving yourself a headache for nothing. Hanging around these people and trying to please them will get you nothing except for more non-issues to worry about. If hanging out with these people is getting you to even contemplate pre-marital sex, then being called anti-social by them is a much better alternative.

Remember that our success lies in following the orders of Allah. These people whose opinions you’re getting worked up about cannot benefit you or harm you. You need no justification whatsoever for following deen.

The closest I came to dealing the peer pressure you’re going through is that I avoided alcohol in university, even if all my peers were consuming it. I was not the least the least bit ashamed by it. Some people would say stuff like “What? you don’t drink?” and I would confidentally tell them I don’t. Some might I have seen it as strange but I didn’t care.

Be brave and do the right thing. If youngsters like you will make the right choices in these matters, not only will you benefit, inshAllah you will also be a means of hidayah for others.

Thanks a lot, brother for your comments and advise :k: kep them coming