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My girl friend was particularly careful about this hymen thing so we restricted to oral so what does that mean? We were actually into sexual relationship. Does it make any difference if the hymen remains intact? Virginity involves much more than that. Either a girl should not even think about a relationship before marriage or she should refrain from raising these petty issues!
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In my opinion, it's the same as having a proper sexual relationship.
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*Originally posted by Attia: *
Now femme. Afghanistan's people are like village people.. and you better know how village peoples are. They are very strick on their culture. They even start getting each other's enemy and killing each other for such matters.. that is why people who were in old times married their daughters as soon as they get their periods, cause they were afraid that what if her hymens distorys or something.....Now people in here dont care about it that much, cause they will go to doc and will do operation.. easy.... yes their are many peoples who does operation if something wrong happens...
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Its jahil people who think in such terms not necessarily village people and I really have no need to know how they are cos hopefully I won't have anything to do with them. Additionally the number of afghan girls who screw around is the same as any other place, Pakistan included. SO this culture and honour isn't only exclusive for Afghanistan. Besides cultures that determine chastity on something like this is all bullcrap anyway be it Pakistan, Afghanistan or any other tan.
"Now people in here dont care about it that much, cause they will go to doc and will do operation.."
^^ This by far is the sickest and most ignorant impliction you have made and is not worthy of a reply.