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hamsa actually in your culture they dont check if you are a virgin or not but in our culture they do check and if you are not a virgin most of the guys give you divorce at the first night of marriage. I have never heard of this culture from pakis so i thought may be a girl does care to be a virgin only for herself cause the guy is not gonna care.. or may be iam wrong…
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an intact hymen merely means that the girl did not had proper sexual intercourse in the vagina (its not a guarantee of virginity) - on the other hand, a broken hymen does not automatically mean that the girl is not a virgin. if the hymen is broken by riding or biking do you then consider the girl a non-virgin? more importantly how will anyone find out?
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prism man you are guy i cant answer you properly but their is a way that they find out at marriage night....so dont think there is no way because there is way..but people dont care about it.
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hamsa actually in your culture they dont check if you are a virgin or not but in our culture they do check and if you are not a virgin most of the guys give you divorce at the first night of marriage. I have never heard of this culture from pakis so i thought may be a girl does care to be a virgin only for herself cause the guy is not gonna care.. or may be iam wrong...
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erm how do they check that?
yeah
yes you are right...they check the blood at morning time...and if the guys see at night that blood didnt come she gets divorced.. and if their is something else they will tell them at the beginning or if the guy agrees to still marry her she will go to doc to check... yes humsa our culture is same as the arabic culture.....Now some people say that there are 6 types of it either blood, water, glue type etc . but they think blood is better. that is why we never used tempex or anything that damages our virginity.. we are very careful while riding bikes jumping, and etc....now their are some afghans who are careless but their luck...
Yea tough luck eh :-/
Jee bilkol so that is why i was kinda surprised when i read that some of the people in here suggested Torn to use tempex or keeper etc.
Is such a guy honestly worth keeping who will divorce you just because ur hymen isn't intact even though you lost it due to being physically active and not sexually?!?!?! I think any half-decent man who is educated would know that sex isn't the only way to lose that hymen! I heard hymens can be restored surgically too. All such thick heads should get girls who have screwed around and had their hymens surgically restored. Then hey can stick the spot of blood on their friggin foreheads and parade it in the whole town.
^ We weren't talking about educated, decent men here ;-)
Humsa the biggest turn off is women catering to the expectations of such illiterate men.
Yes Femme. It's depressing how desperate women can get.
Now femme. Afghanistan's people are like village people.. and you better know how village peoples are. They are very strick on their culture. They even start getting each other's enemy and killing each other for such matters.. that is why people who were in old times married their daughters as soon as they get their periods, cause they were afraid that what if her hymens distorys or something.....Now people in here dont care about it that much, cause they will go to doc and will do operation.. easy.... yes their are many peoples who does operation if something wrong happens...
I've split this thread because I think the topic deserves a thread of its own.
My girl friend was particularly careful about this hymen thing so we restricted to oral so what does that mean? We were actually into sexual relationship. Does it make any difference if the hymen remains intact? Virginity involves much more than that. Either a girl should not even think about a relationship before marriage or she should refrain from raising these petty issues!
1) Not all women bleed
2) Many women bleed/feel pain not because of the breaking of the hymen but because of their size (apparently the hymen is very far back and not everyone reaches it)
Virginity is a complex state to define. It's not lost simply through insertion of a tampon.
FF I agree.
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2) Many women bleed/feel pain not because of the breaking of the hymen but because of their size (apparently the hymen is very far back and not everyone *reaches it)
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Really? I stand educated. Thanks.
Salaam Attia.
Who said you have to bleed when u spend first night
with ur husband?
Some girls are virgin and when they getting married and
spend first night with their're hubby they don't bleed at all.
So u can gurantee that if ur bleeding ur virgin and if u not
bleeding ur not.
Nilu
I was watching this show on GEO and this social worker lady was telling the audience that there are cases in Pakistan where the bride gets a divorce on the first night if she shows ‘interest’ in having sex. 
I guess this must be some form of ‘virginity test’ some moron came up with.
if the girl is an avid horserider, she is likely to have the hymen not in tact. How is she supposed to be prove her virignity?
JaGGa, are you using 'horse' as a metaphor?
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2) Many women bleed/feel pain not because of the breaking of the hymen but because of their size (apparently the hymen is very far back and not everyone *reaches it)
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Are you sure about that? I thought it wasnt located too far back.