Virgin - NonVirgin Haram?

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^ "The adulterer shall not marry save an adulteress or an idolatress, and the adulteress none shall marry save an adulterer or an idolater. All that is forbidden unto believers." (Surah 24:3)

meaning, if Allah wills, that those who are pleased with and revel in committing adultery, fornication, idolatry are for each other and should marry their likes...

... the verse doesn't prevent someone who has given up or repented from fornication or other such sins from marrying a good Muslim and from good Muslims marrying them…

"All that is forbidden unto believers"

meaning, adultery, fornication, idolatry are all forbidden unto believers and/or it is prohibited for believers to marry those who are pleased with and commit adultery, fornication, idolatry

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ok … this is what i’ve heard…

If you are a non-virgin you will be married to a non-virgin and if you are a virgin you will be automatically married to a virgin… :slight_smile:

So if you are a non-virgin and your wife says she is a virgin :hehe: someone’s lying!!! :smiley:

Just what i’ve heard :slight_smile:

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automatically?? interesting choice of words :D

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is this truee???

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automatically- like by fate. or will you ask them if they are/are not a virgin before you finalize the engagement.

when do ppl who have arranged marriages ask if their fiancee is a virgin or not? on the wedding nigt. when you chat w/ them on msn?? before you get engaged??

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you are right on this topic

i am married and have tried it. I married as virgin and then have sex then my husband left to his job in Kuwait after 8 months he send me visa and call me there and then what happend...

strainge for me i was virgin again because i did not had sex from last 8 months

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^ What the %$#&… ???

Just to let you know, it is against GS rules to revive old threads. Welcome to the forum :flower1:

Re: Virgin - NonVirgin Haram?

haye main kinni syani sa'N

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CG, we kind of deal with this on case by case basis. Many times people register to post on a thread that they found while searching through google. SO bumping old threads rule is relaxed for new members.

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did not know that female anatomy is like star fish

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You're not suppose to tell people about your sins. Not even your husband. I think husband would be better off not knowing.

@OP .. never heard of this before!!!

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Both Sara ZZ and OP are long gone :hehe: No need to reply to them

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Oh ok!! :p But anyone else reading. Don't go about disclosing ur sins to people, no one, not even your spouse!

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Main tou apni wife se har cheez chupaane kee koshsih kerta hoon, oos ko khud hee pata chal jaata hai

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^ You sound just like my husband! And your wifey sounds just like me :p

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Niksik, is that you :eek:

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Niksik? Your wifey? NO :smack: I’m Wendy Darling :smiley:

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You seriously need to change your nick. Just calling you by your full username makes me feel that I should go to my wife and ask for her forgiveness :(

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hahahahah based on the replies. i have a scenario :cb:

so if a virgin goes to hell for not having sex

and if pre-marital sex also leads to hell.

which out of the two options is better :smiley:

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hahahahahahahhaha