Virgin - NonVirgin Haram?

I just heard from an unreliable source. that it is haraam for a non virgin man to marry a virgin women and vice versa.. is it true :konfused:

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Nope- not true.

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unreliable source indeed :)

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it shud've though. wud've been interesting.

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if that were the case suroor, what about those who have repented or done hajj?

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sara i dont think u can get ur virginity back by doing hajj. u can't undo what's already done.

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Actually surah noor talks about another angle.. but not for the scenarios depicted in the first post.

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I thought the Quran demands that virgins marry virgins, and leave the nonvirgins to nonvirgins (due to their fornication, not in cases like rape)

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not exactly. Surah Noor, as I said, talks in a different angle. It’s not the interpretation of virgin should marry virgin and vice versa.

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Doesnt’ hajj erase your sins? When u repent and Alllah forgives you, don’t you start over in a way? That’s what I always heard. Anyway, why make such a big deal?God i hope this doesnt go like Mem saab’s did :rolleyes:

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there is a thing as second virginity- probably not islamicly ok,but if you had sex and than you decide you want to wait, than you say your going back to being a "virgin"
- i thought hajj reversed sin too.. but if your a non virigin your future husband/wife should know.. just like they should know about past relationships..

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Might require surgery by Dr. 90210

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what surah noor talks about is ppl who r adulterators....
who r in this practice and an institution as sacred as marriage wud also not prevent them from such an act....

but if one has sinned, and repents, then Allah forgives his/her sins and nothing wrong with marryign a person who has repented from the previous sins....

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someone mention my name????????????????????

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Sara wat do you mean - go like Mem Saab’s what? Virginity :mad: or thread :blush:

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i dont know.. ajjkal to har koi 900 choohay pooray hotay he hajj par chalay jatay hai. benazir or nawaz sharif ney bhi kiya tha.

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Oh come on, people will marry who ever they want as long as they LOVE the other person.

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If that were true than Islam wouldn’t have allowed to remarry (for both men and women). Infact, remarrying is highly recommended if one gets divorced or if the spouse dies.

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it is not haram but i have noticed that many pakis who have been divorced tend to get married to other divorcees or folks how have already been married.

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its haram to die virgin