Violent Outbursts.

I am not violent by nature, I don’t get angry easily and rarely but when I do, just stay away from me. Mom and I had a disagreement over something, and it just pissed me off to the core. Sadly,the kitchen door paid. I feel sorry for doing it but can’t change what happened.

I don’t want to be a violent person, but I just can’t control my anger when it just hits tht certain spot.It just lasts a few seconds and after that I’m totally calm. :frowning:

so whats ur question?

what if it was someones head? well, depends whos at the recieving end... I for instance could make ur nose resemble ur broken door if u tried that on me... :p

I’m sure u could Kaka. :k:

But u didn’t read the whole post did you? :rolleyes:

When I get angry, I cry like a little girl :)

^ That's normal for little girls. You're fine! :D

i did read the whole post... couldnt find any other question,, so i answered the one asked to the best of my abilities :D

You should leave the premises without doing anything. Try to distract yourself instead of doing what you did. The picture that you are showing us is nothing to be proud of and I am sure you are aware of that. Reflect on the nature of the issue when you are back in your senses.

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^ That's normal for little girls. You're fine! :D
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Except that I am a guy.

Dude youre only 16, relax, its expected from you, especially since youre a boy. And the fact that you realise your mistake is great. Give yourself a break.

But tell your Mommy youre sorry. Otherwise you wont go to Jannat.

Anger is healthy. Mine is all suppressed. I hardly show anger, and its one of my bad qualities believe it or not.

^^^ cat, who???

TNC, I hear ya…

I have a violent side too but unless I am provoked on some issue that really pushes my buttons, I try to not get too vocal about it. It’s very difficult and Leos like me are least of all likely not to wear their emotions on their sleeves but it’s important to control your temper. Violent outbursts on every minor issue are just not healthy.

PS: apni mommy se “I’m sorry” jaldi zaroor bol dena :flower1:

TNC how strange you should open this thread.I was just about to do the same.I was going to ask a very silly question.Umm why are guys so violent. My brother is the same.Fortunately he goes out when he gets angry.But usually means something will break when he gets mad.

Im trying to get him to control himself.I myself have a terrible temper.But I never take it out on people.Usually its things around my room.:smack: .However Im nothing compared to how angry my little bro can get.Well maybe its normal for 18 year olds -sometimes?

The good thing is he also doesnt take it out on anybody.Usually goes out for a run or to the gym.But there was a time he started to fight with another guy.Now that was scary.

Tnc dont break doors.Also go to the gym or run or something. And say sorry to your Ammi.You probably gave her a scare- I can just imagine.Best to control yourself until you can go take it out in another manner.Punching bags for example.

I m always relaxed man :smokin2:

nothing can piss me off :smokin2:

unless it s something against humanity :smokin2:

hey, if its any consolation my brothers friend punched a hole through the wall :k:

i knew those kind of stunts only get you in trouble so i used to really torture my victims

once i threw a live bumblebee down my brothers T shirt

another time i put his Maths homework through the shredder

annnd another time I poured ink and honey in his brand new trainers (total nightmare considering we had to go to an amusement park that day, wow, by the end of it the blue ink had split into all sorts of shades on his socks, fascinating huh? funny thing is noone found out it was me, so boring so i told them myself)

sighz kids these days just dont do it with style anymore do they? :smiley:

It's unhealthy because you never know when it can turn onto an individual. One of my friends, her husband had fits of anger where he'd punch the wall when he was upset. She showed me the indents in the wall, and that was scary. Eventually he ended up punching her when they got into big arguments. Eventhough he didnt think it would ever come to that. I would suggest you read up about anger management and as others have suggested, find a positive outlet to release it.

There have been a lot of studies done on this, and most recently a study came out stating that suppressing anger is better than not suppressing it, unless you release it in a positive way.

Only in America … If it was Pakistan, he would have ended-up with broken nuckels and/or fingers … good old brick/cement walls…

TNC … when you are angry… remember Allah (SWT) … say La-howla-wala-quwata-illa-bi-Allah few times it might help…

Xara, ur so funny...

i think people who dont share their problems end up with a lot more anger inside.. im 24 and i sitll cry when im mad hahaha

My brother is the same. Ghar mein sher banta hai.. bahar billy ka bacha.

Saddz, i had a crazy imagination, occasionally ide do a funeral for some insects as well, you can make a pretty good coffin with a pista shell complete with a rose petal lining :k:

just make sure the insects as good as dead though, its no good having to use a live one that crawls out every second

^^

You were a strange little girl :snooty: