Victim Mentality

Ok this thread is not a girl bashing thread but just a wake up call for those who fall in this category.

What do you tell to a friend who always comes off as a victim? I find this characteristic quite common among women They constantly need reassurance that they don’t have bad hair, face, features etc etc. There comes a point when u get fed-up. Maybe it is a girly talk…girls discuss their physical flaws with each other…not sure. Guys don’t spend too much time worrying about such things.
You tell a guy you are beautiful three times and he will start believing you..similarly, if you come off as ‘not good enough’..it will leave an impression on him. One should find a middle ground between a victim and an arrogant u know what…in other words please be normal for your own sake.

Re: Victim Mentality

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…in other words please be normal for your own sake.
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does this apply to girls only chick?

No mohabat..it can be applied to both..but I am just giving you a guy's perspective.
Didn't you read the disclaimer? :-p

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No mohabat..it can be applied to both..but I am just giving you a guy's perspective.
Didn't you read the diclaimer? :-p
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yeh mrs i did.. :p

iv never known a guy to have a perspective...

never mind..this can be my new thing that i have learnt today.

See I think it's got to do with how teh relationship ends..girls will wail and cry and guys walk away as if they've just chucked away a half eaten Mickey Dees meal.

Maybe if we saw guys in the same amount of pain and emotional anguish as we were feeling then we wouldnt blame ourselves..we'd blame circumstance or the lack of compatibility.

Now you’re just doing guy bashing :teary1:

aww chick..i would and could never bash you…

i was actually being serious…iv never known the guys perspective as the guys i have ever been in the company of can and will never think of their own perspective..

in fact …id like to know more…i promise im being serious..and i will be a good little girl and listen..promise!! :halo:

Just rename this forum from Health and Relationships to Gender Wars :)

Whats your phone number...I wouldn't mind hearing some British accent..not doing much at work anyways...I'll tell you everything u need to know.
p.s. I am no mrs huh!

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Whats your phone number...I wouldn't mind hearing some British accent..not doing much at work anyways...I'll tell you everything u need to know.
p.s. I am no mrs huh!
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somehow, i dont think your quite ready to here my British accent, its very unique and for special people only :P

im gona go make something to eat now..but when i come back i want to see a list of male perspective on every and any issue you can bring yourself to tell me about...ok chick?

i like mrs on you...in fact...i think il upgrade u from "chick" to "mrs"

lucky u ;)

someone got rejected :hula:

fayz are you feeling "victimised" yet?

^ haha! get out you party poopers
Hey Mohabbat I am special…ask my mom! she tells me I am.
Chicken :rolleyes:

vewy vewy special indeed.

^ that was uncalled for Mr religious.
I'm sorry you are not a gem for your parents.

No need to get all touchy now Fayz.

I thought you were on my side a few threads ago...surprise surprise :-D

Just soothing your ruffled spirits darling...I'm on nobodys side..I'm so big I block up the entire asile

awww that hurts…must be my bad day..two rejections in a row :rotfl: Please be on my side…please?

LOL! Fayz..alrite ...you sound like you need a make over girl friend!