My family’s approach was family involvement since the begining which did happen in this case. His aunt and my mom had found that they had some mutual friends. May be Good family background and mutual friends etc were the reasons we never thought he can be a divorcee and would hide this from us because neither him nor any of his family members told us this thing. We had been quite wrong in judging him.
May be it was in our sub-conscious mind that if there is any such thing, the family should have moral responsibility to tell the girl’s family. Even I advised this guy that I do not belong to very well to do family like his family does (because we have lost our dad) so that he should proceed ONLY if he thinks ok about my family status and he liked me being very open and straight forward. He could have taken that opportunity to tell me about his divorce. May be NOT everyone in this world is as straight forward.