Re: Very Very COMPLEX rishta situation
I know. But my mom told me these things happen in arranged settings when guys families return to the girl’s families like after a year or two to see if the girl is still available. I do not know about this rishta setting since I have been brought up abraod. So had to do whatever my family wanted me to do. And yes, because of the time this rishta lingered on, and no more decent proposals coming along, I found myself get attached to this guy. My mistake 
Since this guy himself wanted us to keep him in reserve, we did that. But it should not have happened.
But I am really finding courage to make myself believe that this guys must not be good enough for me and hope someone better soon comes along 