Re: Very Very COMPLEX rishta situation
My mom asked me to send one email every 3 months just to ask about if things proceed with him. Things were NOT going anywhere for us so my mom said it was NO harm in waiting for him if he really is trying to make his mom agree. We had a hint about his family’s disagreement in the begining when my mom called his aunty and she made an excuse that she had guests and cud not talk. Previously, he told my mom that the guy’s mom had to decide among 3-4 proposals and she will be finalising things in 2-3 months. So my mom thought may be they wanted some time as this is quite common in arranged setting.
But then the guy clearly advised us that his mom in interested somewhere else. We just kept in touch through keeping each other on 2 chats, sending few fwd emails and sending proper email from my mom every 3 months to ask him about his update.
When he had the gut to say MOVE ON to me in January, he should have the guts to say NO to be before. May be he just wanted to linger things on until we found out the truth of divorce about him. Grrrrrr.