If a guy is interested, he wont wait around for another man to come and get you. Thats how it works. If he likes you enough, he will do what he needs to do. It really is as simple as that. A divorced man with a child is usually much more independent and doesnt need approval to marry.
Do you think anyone or anything is stopping him from marrying you? According to you, you’re much better than a divorcee so why wouldnt his mother agree to you? She should be doing sajday in gratitude, right?
But is that happening? No. Nothing is happening.
He sounds like the kind of guy who has a hard time saying NO to people, thats all. He doesnt like unpleasant situations or rejecting people.
As for the website…has it occurred to you that since he doesnt see a future with you…he doesnt care what you find out or see?