I met this girl through my best friend some 3 years back. She was such a religious and practising girl, talking about hajj, wearing hijaab. Very pretty girl!But very depressed too and I always felt that something was wrong with her though I never found out what was wrong with her.
This girl used my friend a lot for her personal stuff and stayed many nights at her place etc. Suddenly she just dissappeared from her life and stopped calling etc. I didnt see her for ages either cuz the only contact I had with her was through my own friend.
So after all these years, this girl appears in my friend’s life again and wanted to be friends like the good old days. Today the religious girl is talking about hindu gods, says bull **** about a lot of islamic stuff and I was very choked to hear that!!!
It appears that she has a bf who is not even interested in converting to islam. he is inspired by hinduism and buddhism though he is atheist. she sounds very inspired by his beliefs and talks like she is gonna follow that stream too. Not only was it a chock to know about her bf, it just became a mega chock that she stays at his place telling her parents that she is staying at a friend’s place.
I was very much in chok over all this. But the worst part just appeared recently. That her gora bf beats her!!!and she isnt even willing to get out of that relationship!!!and then it appears that he has some pctures of her that he is blancmailing her with!!!and even though she has accees to his appartment, she still hasnt destroyed the stuff!!!she says its too late and that there is no return. she even tried to commit suicide some months back!!!
some of her siblings know about this gora bf but they are not doing anything about it!Her parents are very rigid and “traditional” and dont want her to marry outside their cast so today she is 30 yrs old and there is no rishta coming for her but for the youngers girls in the family. nobody talks about her marriage. and look what she is involved in!!!
I feel disgusted. and very very very upset. I really really feel like helping her out. But i dont see any way to help her since she keeps going back to her bf even though he is beating the H’‘’ out of her. I fear that she is on drugs and cuz of that addiction she keeps going to him. And i still cant get over the chock that a girl like her ended up in this situation!!!
I fear for her life. either she is gonna commit suicide or he is gonna kill her by the beatings. she is physically weak and i dont think she can handle it for long.
As muslims we should help others in such situations, especially another muslim who ended up in wrongdoings but I just dont know how i can help her. i dont have direct contact with her and it wont help involving her family as they already know and they arent doing anything about it. she doesnt listen to anyone advicing her so I cant see any way to help her…
let me guess, some people labelled “good muslims” deceived her, and she fall prey to that looser??
i’ve so many beardo and hijaabi who were sooooooooooo hypocrites:bummer:…astafirullah they are trying to make the pure honest souls out of islam by teaching them it’s an APEEARANCE and hypocrite religion:(
Chameli it’s your role as a friend to show her the GOOD side of Islam, no lies, no hypocrisy, don’t spen your time blaming her cause her hijaab is not fit, and her eyes too up, and her brain to intelligent for a women:bummer:
show her love, help her, encourage her by your good feelings and your pure mind to come back to a healthier lifestyle…
well the thing is that my friend has spent one month talking to her and trying to covince her to go to the police and also tell the docter the thruth about the violence.
But she doesnt want to. she says she enjoys the way he cuts her and tastes her blood and that it makes her feel like a queen..astaghfirullah!!!!!!!!!
you should know better, most humans are immoral, oppressive and backward:bummer:…not only muslims:), muslims are human like others, as many flaws unfortunately, but not more!:halo:
this is a phsychiatric case!!
i think you need to report it to some docs, i don’t know about interment in your place, but seriously she needs help, and if her mind is not able to take responsabilities, it means authorities have to FORCE her to get cure for her own safety!
she needs a serious phsychiatric treatment and counselling…
i hope she’ll recover soon:rose:
you should know better, most humans are immoral, oppressive and backward:bummer:…not only muslims:), muslims are human like others, as many flaws unfortunately, but not more!:halo: