Re: Very tough to get over
You thank my ex for them.
Re: Very tough to get over
Dear Hassan 007
I am so feeling you right now. I am in the exact same boat as you.
I had been with this guy for almost 4 years. Made every plan you could think of, but deep down I think we both knew that it would never happen. Partial because of our religious differences even though we are both pakistanis and because of our very young age.
Winter '08 he went to Pakistan with his father, and got engaged with some girl, his father chose for him. This summer he went to Pakistan again and came back married. I couldn't believe it when he told me, I still can't. I would have never thought that he would get married so soon.
But the truth is that it has happend. He has gotten married and so have the girl that you loved. We have to accept the truth because we can't do anything about this fact. I don't think we will ever be able to forget about them nor will we stop loving them. But we can't let this effect our lives. I don't think it's right for you to get married asap, because as you said, that wouldn't be fair. I am sure that you have a family that loves you and wants the best for you so please do not neglect them. I am sure that they also see and feel your pain and support you. My parents doesn't even know about it, so I feel like i'm putting up this facade.
But anyways, I am relying on what everyone is telling me, that with time it will get better. And hopefully it will for you too inshahAllah. You just have to hang in there and try to focus on the positive things around you.