Very tough to get over

Hello all,

I hope each and every one of you are doing well.
I have been in couple of relationships in the past but this one particular girl whom i met 2 years back. We hit it off very well at that time i was at doing last year of medical school. She was genuinely very nice and we shared lots of common interests, ambitions, physical attraction and did plan on getting married to each other. Then we decided to tell our respective parents. Then my father called her father to introduce himself and told him the reason he is calling about. Her father got annoyed and told my father that “we are not planning our daughter to get married right now and let him (me) finish medical degree and then come back.

Fast forward to 3 months ago, when I was just about to finish my residency at Toronto General Hospital and of course ready to approach her father…. her dad was diagnosed with cancer and forced my girlfriend to marry one of her own cousin (just two months back). Just don’t ask me how?. It’s long story. I am beyond heart broken at the moment my life is shattered every where. I am still not recovered yet. I am 26 years old and don’t think I can’t be with someone else. Sigh! Yes doctors need help too!!.
I even came back from hospital early today because didn’t feel like working at all. Common guys give me some cheer ups and tell me everything is going to be ok as everybody says.

Re: Very tough to get over

okie...her aba is churhail! :D
does that makes u feel better :D

ps. its life and things happen. pray zahur and ask forgiveness and happiness for yourself.

Everything will be ok.
In a couple of years, she will have a couple of cute babies and everyone will be happy.

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zobia, how can aba be churail?? Churails are female :p

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Hassan Maamoo, I don't get this. She is your cousin? Did your other cousin whom she married, didn't know you two were in love?

churhail sounds more evil than jinn na :D

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This is sad :frowning: Guys stop derailing! :smilestar:

sorry i meant to write one of her cousin..not mine. If it would have been mine..i would have killed him long time ago. :(

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Hi. My name is PCG. waves

Well may Allah keep her happy always.

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Dude, on a serious level. She is married now so you must move on.** Move**, and on, being the key words.

:bummer:

There’s loadsa girls out there.. get to know 'um :hmmm:

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here ya go…http://www.paklinks.com/gs/wedding/318498-looking-rishtas-post-here-9.html#post6890709

i hope this would help you :stuck_out_tongue:

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As my signature says Everything happends for a reason. You might not see it here and now , but later you will realise what happend happend for the best..

So just move on, i know its hard but its not like you have any choice..... Focus on whats good in your life, like your friends, familiy, studies etc... As they say time heal everything, sooner or later you will get over her..

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There's a reason why this forum is called "life" and relationships... it's a part of life. Right now, it might seem like the worst thing that could happen to you, but in time, you'll come across someone else. Besides, she was Turkish, so the chances of you two ending up together weren't necessarily that high if you were looking for approval from both sides of the family.

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Seriously, I was gonna say marry PCG.

I’m a Rishta lady in the making :blush:

Thanks Inzi..

Btw, did any of you went through this experience..if yes then…how long it took you to get over it??

No no not Turkish..i broke up with Turkish one..long time ago. This was pakistani...

Hey this me...i am very sad fellow at the moment.

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oye yay Pakistani mard aajkal Turkish ladkioN per kiun lattoo horahay hayN..is this the IN thing now?

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And then it began...