I hope each and every one of you are doing well.
I have been in couple of relationships in the past but this one particular girl whom i met 2 years back. We hit it off very well at that time i was at doing last year of medical school. She was genuinely very nice and we shared lots of common interests, ambitions, physical attraction and did plan on getting married to each other. Then we decided to tell our respective parents. Then my father called her father to introduce himself and told him the reason he is calling about. Her father got annoyed and told my father that “we are not planning our daughter to get married right now and let him (me) finish medical degree and then come back.
Fast forward to 3 months ago, when I was just about to finish my residency at Toronto General Hospital and of course ready to approach her father…. her dad was diagnosed with cancer and forced my girlfriend to marry one of her own cousin (just two months back). Just don’t ask me how?. It’s long story. I am beyond heart broken at the moment my life is shattered every where. I am still not recovered yet. I am 26 years old and don’t think I can’t be with someone else. Sigh! Yes doctors need help too!!.
I even came back from hospital early today because didn’t feel like working at all. Common guys give me some cheer ups and tell me everything is going to be ok as everybody says.
As my signature says Everything happends for a reason. You might not see it here and now , but later you will realise what happend happend for the best..
So just move on, i know its hard but its not like you have any choice..... Focus on whats good in your life, like your friends, familiy, studies etc... As they say time heal everything, sooner or later you will get over her..
There's a reason why this forum is called "life" and relationships... it's a part of life. Right now, it might seem like the worst thing that could happen to you, but in time, you'll come across someone else. Besides, she was Turkish, so the chances of you two ending up together weren't necessarily that high if you were looking for approval from both sides of the family.
There's a reason why this forum is called "life" and relationships... it's a part of life. Right now, it might seem like the worst thing that could happen to you, but in time, you'll come across someone else. Besides, she was Turkish, so the chances of you two ending up together weren't necessarily that high if you were looking for approval from both sides of the family.
No no not Turkish..i broke up with Turkish one..long time ago. This was pakistani...