You see my friend, this is my problem..it would take me so much time to be comfortable with someone. My older sister advised exactly what you have just said and she also advised that i should get married but i told her..that even if i get married to someone else..it will actually remind me of her so much..because me and her used to talk about everything..i mean even an extent to when i chose to buy my own apartment..she was with me. The girl i was with…she was perfect..everything about her was perfect..she was very pretty, very humble, graceful and have been there when i was going through very tough time financially. I know it might not be end of the world..but to me..she would always be my first love and i cannot give that place to someone else..even i get married to someone else. And you are absolutely right, i cannot forget her but i can learn to move on. But for that to happen, i have to re-boot myself to someone else. Another thing is…since i cannot give that place to someone like she had…would i find somebody else just like that?