Very much upset !

diamond321 · July 19, 2010, 4:46pm

'Designer' Purses for Women in Islamabad

I know a family where the MIL does not send the bahus to their mahkas when they give birth. She let them go when the 40 days after child birth are complete. According to her what insaniyaat there is to send your bahu to her parents home when she is not physically fit to take care of herself and her baby…meaning that bahus are only allowed to live in susraal when they are healthy & are able to do work , once they are not able to work and need someone to look after them they should pack their bags and go back to their parents. In my own family my mother and all the other bahus in the family never went to their mahka for child birth. It’s inhumane and it just shows that we don’t need you around when you aren’t fit and we are just using you and don’t really care for your well being.

But for disturb angel’s own health & for the sake of baby’s well being it should not be considered what is right or wrong. if she is well taken care of in her parents house then thats the way it should be. Pregnancy and child birth is not a joke and you really need someone to take care of you in these situations.

RV …I said almost the same thing in my previous post