very confused

Re: very confused

I want to say something but don’t want to come across as being all negative. What do I say? He doesn’t love you because he won’t committ. I feel terrible saying it because she’s so head over heels and convinced he’s so into her. It’s also difficult because I was in a similar ish situation a few years ago ( he was actually too young, immature and not settled in life) but he came around soon after as he sorted himself out. I don’t know if she looks at me and is hopeful. My guy had a genuine reason though and it didn’t take him too long to fix it but yeah when he didn’t step up I leftt him and began to look elsewhere.
she always says what can I do- I don’t want to push him and “make him” marry me- he should say it himself…