very confused

[redvelvet]

Re: very confused

@Endofdreamz

Thanks to all everyones support has been very generous and helpful.

update: he felt my parents did not welcome him & his parents when they came to the house properly. I expected it to be awkward since the families did not know each other and had no communication. so now he has taken alot of time to tell me this because he didnt want to upset me.(yeah right)

he does not know whether he wants to get married or not. This is silly a person knows if they want to get married so told him im not waiting around for him to decide if he wants to marry as he should know in his heart if he does and if he not sure that means im not the right person for him.

heartbroken and sad and really pissed off! he’s not worth my time.

So don’t waste any more of your precious time and energy on him. If he was that into you, if he was serious, if he believed you were the one for him…he would have tried harder to convince his parents and maintained open communication with you. Seems that this is “not meant to be”…so move on. It will hurt and take time to get over him, but I think that the sooner you start the process of moving on, the better it is. Why prolong the state that you’re in when it’s not going anywhere? I think it just causes more heartache the longer you keep yourself emotionally attached to him. If he has a change of mind, he knows how to reach you and let him be the first to contact. But you shouldn’t wait around to see or even hope that he’ll realize your value and worth to him. So, move on.