Re: Very complicated & weird proposal experience..need girls advice
There is absolutely no problem discussing and sharing expectations during the initial talks. Things like “If we become engaged/married, would you give up XYZ for me?” etc. But asking someone to change things RIGHT NOW…while there is no formal commitment at all seems ridiculous to me.
But then again, a guy who’s ok with watching a adult video with a girl 3 weeks after chatting with her and then taking the high moral ground is also ridiculous.