Re: Very complicated & weird proposal experience..need girls advice
Why I called him decent or educated but not an a hole. Following reasons:
1- He could have blackmailed her for those pictures and you don’t know what comes under that.
Are these enough reasons for you? I can certainly think of some other if I’d think more.
He didn’t do any of those things. As far as being part of that thing for a short period of time is concerned he had a soft corner for her because he liked and cared for her.
I can say with confident that if there was a guy who was even slightly cracked he would’ve definitely gone for sex after seeing those photographs and he would have definitely taken advantage of her.
But in this case nothing like that happened.
Also see what the dude is talking about here.
“I was always willing to make compromises–that’s what marriage is all about. Later in the relationship, she also told me not to hang out with some of my female friends, or go to a halloween party and some other school parties, and she told me not to consider or contact the other proposals I was getting. I never did, never once made issue about it because those other girls don’t matter to me..she mattered to me the most. I really liked her and was my girlfriend. Her comfort is my comfort, her happiness is my happiness. If she objected to something I do, I would hear her out and try to get her view point and if it was even somewhat justified I didn’t do it for her sake and her comfort.”***
I’m not sure why you felt the need to explain this but whatever. I hope explaining this made you feel better.
Of course! Any woman who does not agree with you MUST be a hussy just like the girl OP chatted with! That is the ONLY objective and reasonable conclusion.
