Very complicated & weird proposal experience..need girls advice

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Re: Very complicated & weird proposal experience..need girls advice

@Paheli00

Oh wow…that’s for letting me know that I’m a woman! I didn’t realize there were any doubts but either way, really glad you were able to recognize that. And thank you also for the compliment. Makes me feel good to know that I can be “cute” without even thinking about it.

Well since you so graciously volunteered…Please do explain to me what the difference is.

3 WEEKS after OP started chatting with a girl online, she asked him to watch a porn with her online. He agreed and watched the video with her. Exactly what did this guy not know was coming?

Thank you so much for clarifying this.

So a woman who asks a guy to watch porn with her and send him nude pics of herself = Hussy and the “S” word.

The guy who agrees to watch the porn with her and continues to accept those nude pics = “Decent educated man”.

You know…it really is great to see desi Muslim men able to view situations like this so objectively. I can only dream of having a son someday who thinks like this.

@Paheli00

Exactly! :k:

The hussy was the one sending the pics. All the guy did was look at them…each time she kept sending them. This makes the guy so much better than the girl. After all…what “decent educated man” does not continue to look at intimate pics sent to him by a girl he’s chatting with for a rishta purposes? Why would any Pakistani Muslim “decent educated man” immediately stop talking to a girl like this and not continue to consider her as a future wife? Duh!

Let me try to answer because cute girls deserve more time

Why I called him decent or educated but not an a hole. Following reasons:

1- He could have blackmailed her for those pictures and you don’t know what comes under that.
2- He could have slept with her for as long as he wanted without getting married.
3- He could have made those pictures public.
4- He could have taken away all that devilish charm she had and then throw her away like a used tissue paper.

Are these enough reasons for you? I can certainly think of some other if I’d think more.

He didn’t do any of those things. As far as being part of that thing for a short period of time is concerned he had a soft corner for her because he liked and cared for her.

I can say with confident that if there was a guy who was even slightly cracked he would’ve definitely gone for sex after seeing those photographs and he would have definitely taken advantage of her.

But in this case nothing like that happened.

Also see what the dude is talking about here.

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“I was always willing to make compromises–that’s what marriage is all about. Later in the relationship, she also told me not to hang out with some of my female friends, or go to a halloween party and some other school parties, and she told me not to consider or contact the other proposals I was getting. I never did, never once made issue about it because those other girls don’t matter to me..she mattered to me the most. I really liked her and was my girlfriend. Her comfort is my comfort, her happiness is my happiness. If she objected to something I do, I would hear her out and try to get her view point and if it was even somewhat justified I didn’t do it for her sake and her comfort.”***

If you still not convinced it means you also wouldn’t mind sharing your nudes with a dude who really got your attention and you felt him serious about relationship in just 3 weeks time period.