Muzna
April 10, 2015, 3:48pm
30
Re: Very complicated & weird proposal experience..need girls advice
I don’t want to control anyone. **My mindset is that guys and girls shouldnt act single when in a relationship–it’s just disrespectful to the other partner. **We were committed to each other, she was my girlfriend and I was her boyfriend and we were discussing marriage. So it would be okay if my future wife is hanging out with a group of guys all the time who did not even know she was committed (she hadn’t told anyone yet about me)? I trusted her and never once questioned her about who she talked to today or who she hung out–guys do this and to me that’s controlling behavior. And I’m pretty sure no wife would like it if her husband was socializing with a group of women all the time and acting single while in a relationship. It’s not about jealousy (a dose of jealousy within limit is completely normal for a relationship) and neither is it about some sick need to control another person, it’s about respecting each other and each others relationship.
you seem to have a grip on something that many married men and women don’t understand.