Re: Very complicated & weird proposal experience..need girls advice
I was always willing to make compromises–that’s what marriage is all about. Later in the relationship, she also told me not to hang out with some of my female friends, or go to a halloween party and some other school parties, and she told me not to consider or contact the other proposals I was getting. I never did, never once made issue about it because those other girls don’t matter to me..she mattered to me the most. I really liked her and was my girlfriend. Her comfort is my comfort, her happiness is my happiness. If she objected to something I do, I would hear her out and try to get her view point and if it was even somewhat justified I didn’t do it for her sake and her comfort. I wouldn’t view it as controlling–I’d view it normally that she wants me to herself because she values me. If done within limit, isn’t that normal feelings to have in love?