Re: Venting/Dissing of spouse and inlaws
yes Islamically speaking Cough Cough your argument is invalid. And i know someone who once wrote if women want to think this way(not contributing and spending 8 hours at work outside of house) then they should be ok with their husbands bringing in second wife just because first wife isn’t contributing. If a husband has to bring a second wife based on that, that itself speaks volumes about his character and his sense of responsibility.
But what i have observed is that women here are fine with this monetary contribution arrangement. And if some woman raises her voice about the islamic right of hers, it is women on this forum who jump at her first. This thread was a good example of it:
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/636448-finances.html
And yes i am not implying that women should not contribute at all, but it is surprising when women are not only contributing financially but also carrying out household responsibilities single-handedly. ever heard of the tandem metaphor used for marriage.
Whilst some women here like to behave as fairy baby dolls, some of them are doing more than they should be and perhaps they don’t even know and realize that. And they are brimming with advice for others. lol
Yes woman of this age is exceptionally good at venting and screaming out for her rights, but hardly really know much about her real rights.
Oh yes yes i can see the flak-firing squad jumping into its position.
posting pic is not justifiable( though also curious to see those fairy wings attached to you that let you spout the stuff you do)
But how come the highlighted text doesn’t apply you on. Any given day you can effortlessly win anti desi trolling contest with panache. And if you call your opinions just opinions then you need to get some help asap.