^yup, couldn’t agree more! Personally, I could never change a set that my in-laws gave me because I know that it would be a national issue. I know for a fact my hubby would be totally against it since the set was his mom’s personal choice and me changing it would be saying “I don’t like your taste in jewellery and it’s not good enough for me to wear.” Although I don’t think it’s a big deal to change a set that you have had for a long time especially if you don’t wear it, I’d never be able to do it. Only you can judge how your in-laws are. If they are sensitive people then I’d suggest that you just leave it in your locker. It’s not worth ruining relations over.