I think it is some what true that both end should have to take care.Any body or any sex
at any time geta wrong way ,u all talk about islam ,islam says also to help others even if they r going wrong thing their help is to give them back to "sarate mustaqeem".
And the original way is (to help others)do
ur self what u like for others.boys respect
to girls even if girls have not good cloths.Girls respect to boys and do not make theirselvs as showpiece .
In one earlier islamic war enmy decide to trap the muslim army by the trick that as they enter in city the girls without cloths
recieve them and a commando group will attack on muslim when they will bussy in girls,but as the muslim entered in city the commander of muslim forces saw the girls and
guess all situation he read a quranic vers that god ordered to all muslim men to let their eyes down ,all the forces suddenly
down the eyes and enmy was engaged.
You can decide ur self now.