Re: Urgent: Please Help
i m not against love marriages....but u must about the consequences of this sort of marriage. I know a couple of people personally that married someone from a different country and religion and guess what!!! they had many fights, arguments over little things that created a lot of tension at their house. I m not saying all marriages of this kind fail, but alot of them do fail and its not practical to decide to marry someone just because ur heart says so....try to picture life ahead and if u feel comfortable, marry her. Issues like *serving/not letting serve wine or other alcoholic drinks *can create a big mess between the two parties (that is if u really care about carrying those values that support our religion). Think about your children, what religion will they be follwowing, what names will be given to them....these issues seem little and less important but they become pretty big in a real situation later. Trust me. And again, i am not discouraging you but rather pointing out things that may seem very little but hold a lot of power to change everything around (have seen it happen).