Re: Urgent: Please Help
:salam:
**Chapter 1: The saying of Allah the Exalted, “and we have enjoined upon man to be good to his parents”
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Please Follow the link and read more regarding Status of Parents in Islam:
http://www.allaahuakbar.net/ahaadeeth/bukhari/regarding_good_conduct_towards_ones_parent.htm
Now Before i say that you should go and get married. Please Read the response given by SolarOceans on previous page.
Reading from your posts you seem confused and unsure of what to do. Also i have noticed that you have stated that “and I love the girl, she is an amazing person” indicating that you are thinking with your heart rather than logically.
First: I would like to suggest to you that you think over it logically (and i mean do not bring your emotions in to it… although it is hard).
**Second: **Give Her the Quran to read
**Third: **Have a peaceful talk with your parents (it is crucial that YOU respect them, otherwise they will have an excuse and later you will regret it).
**Fourth: **Ask Her to talk to her parents
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Results:
1- **If you believe (not think) what you are doing is correct
**2- **If She takes the Quran and ACTUALLY READS IT (one way of knowing she whether read it is to get into conversation related to Women, and see if she quotes anything related to Quran)
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**it is likely, that your and her parents will reject the idea of marriage between Muslim-Christian. But that should not upset you or her.
Finally, Take her to Mosque and revert her to Islam. The priest will ask her various question, and YOU should Pay close attention to her answers. Here you will learn her inmost thoughts regarding why she wants to marry (for example: is she reverting just for you?, or Islam or both).
If she is reverting just for you, and not interested in Islam then i have to say that you should not marry such woman (same applies to woman marrying man).
Otherwise, congratulations!, you have found a person who is not only in love with you but also is a Muslima.
May Allah have mercy and forgive us all.