Lol thanks RV. But actually I meant that it if it’s coming second hand from your mother and your father hasn’t mentioned it to you or you haven’t spoken to him about it - then she may be making it sound a lot worse than it is in order that you get angry and fight with your fiance.
Reading the replies that have come later, the only one who has said there was any misbehaviour is your mum, who also told you that your dad strictly told her not to tell you.
The only one who is creating problems in every thread you write is your mum - and you’re reacting exactly the way she wants you to.